Post Date December, 03 2023
Don't wait until you are 50 to understand, it will be late!
After 50 years, I realized that good friends should appreciate each other, not use each other. Good friends can only be made in the same class, while the poor and the rich, the people and the officials, the grassroots and the stars, the white Ding and the scholars can never become true friends. Because you are not in the same class, you will never have the other party's profound experience and understanding of this class.
Only after 50 did I understand that food should be eaten every mouthful and things should be done little by little. Nothing can be done overnight, so you should not be exhausted. Middle age, should live calmly.
After 50 years, I realized that it is not enough to be calm. When appropriate, I should show myself to brighten the dull day.
Only after 50 did I understand that age is just a symbol for life. What is the so-called "young and talented for the country, what is the eldest and the eldest?".
Only after 50 did I understand that everything has duality, and sometimes there is no right or wrong. What you think is wrong may be right in others' eyes. But what you strive for with all your strength is likely to be what others get rid of and abandon.
After 50 years, I realized that the quality of life depends entirely on my attitude. The delicacies and the crisscross cups can be deceitful if they are hidden. It is far better than "three or five friends sit, light tea talk about homely.". If high officials and rich salaries are poor in mind, they are worried about their official career. It's far better to "gather chrysanthemum under the east fence and see the south mountain leisurely.".
Only after 50 did we understand that we should treat our beloved heterosexual confidants with more love and less greed. It will make your emotional sky less haze and more sunshine.
After 50 years, I realized that the alienation of family is the pain of skin cutting. Lighter, more forgiving and more tolerant will make our hearts wider, warmer and warmer.
After 50 years, I realized that we can no longer treat our parents with the silly things of thin and thick burial. Their generation has suffered too much. To treat them well is to treat our conscience well. Speaking of kindness, parents will love money very much, but with the use of their brains, things will be done successfully. In fact, most of the time they don't need your glory at all. Ask them a story about their youth every week, and then listen to them patiently. They will be satisfied.
After 50 years, I realized that our partner seemed to be ordinary and sometimes even unbearable. In fact, the growth rings of the years have already wrapped each other together. Even bad habits and customs have become a part of their lives. If you really want to tear up this miserable marriage one day, you will find that every piece of it will be connected with your own flesh and bones.
It was only after 50 that we realized that our doting on children was just as harmful to their health as high fat and high sugar. We are afraid that they will take a detour, we are afraid that they will suffer, and we are afraid that they will survive the storm. Our whole family set up a greenhouse for them, and then stared at their weak development.
After 50, I realized that position is only a cup, and your cultivation and character are the special things in your cup. The luminous glass may not contain grape wine, but also a glass of turbid water. What is not seen in the thick porcelain cup is boiled water, and what is probably stuffy is an excellent Longjing. The quality is all in the nature of the day after tomorrow.
