Post Date December, 02 2023
Introduction: Marriage is a dreamy lake, and those who haven't jumped in want to jump in; The person who jumped in wanted to jump out. In today's world full of material and money, rational people have developed a mentality towards marriage, which is called "fear". The "fear of marriage" is not about marriage itself, but about the back of marriage.
When there is a huge gap between the real marital life and the romantic perfection in dreams, it is understandable that some people start to avoid, get tired of, and fear.
It should be said that marriage is indeed a major event in life. Marriage transforms everyone's roles in the family and even society, which puts pressure on some people's psychology. When there is a huge gap between the reality of marriage and the perfect romantic dream, it is understandable that some people start to avoid, get tired of, and fear.
Story 1: Male, Fear Becomes a Tool for Making Money
My friends around me are deeply suspicious of me. They feel that there is no abnormality in my physical and mental state, and all aspects of my condition are excellent. The girls who request further dating are also in good condition. Why have they repeatedly rejected them? Actually, I am not refusing, I simply have a fear of marriage.
I am afraid that after marriage, I will become a money making machine to support my family and listen to my wife's words.
Women are quite adorable before getting married, and they change their faces as soon as they get married. They originally had many aspirations and ideals, but in the name of marriage, those who had worked hard to improve began to have a shallow vision and were only interested in the land they lived on. They regarded the education of their husbands as a compulsory course for men in the latter half of their lives. I am used to being at ease outside the gate of marriage, and I don't want to suffer in the 'school' run by women!
Story 2: Female, Fear of Broken Marriage
When I was a child, my deepest memory was the daily quarrels and curses of my parents. I couldn't see anything like mutual respect in them. I always thought that they had ruined their holy marriage with their betrayal, and were also tormenting themselves. In the end, they had to get rid of the bitter sea through divorce. After breaking up, my parents gave me more love to comfort me. But children who grew up in the abandoned capital of marriage, no matter how wealthy they are in material terms, cannot sew up the cracks in their hearts. For marriage, I have rosy dreams like other girls. But one thing I am steadfast in is that I will not repeat the mistakes of my parents' marriage.
I get along very well with my current boyfriend, and I am more immersed in the joy brought by youth and love. Of course, I am not just a girl who loves recklessly. Although I claim to be able to exchange a lot of youth for true love, I am not very sentimental. It's just that there is a knot in my heart that I can't unravel. It's hidden in a corner of my heart that I don't even want to touch.
