In today's society, what men want is to pat their hips and leave after having a good time, while what women want is to last forever. This is a basic set of contradictions that cannot be resolved. Therefore, many leftover men and women are at a loss and afraid of marriage. So it has brought a huge market, just doing it without love. However, women have been shackled by thousands of years of tradition, and men have received thousands of years of orthodox education. It creates a reality where both men and women wander lonely at home, searching for nothing.
"Love is a promise" is bullshit for men
For men, saying "I love you" is as common as eating. What kind of love is a commitment, and grasping the joy of the moment is the essence of a person. Commitment only represents what you wanted to do at the time. After that time, whether you did it or not is another matter. "But most women take love seriously, and when they hear a man say they love them, they take it seriously, but they don't know that men may be joking.". This has led to many women silently waiting for a man, and it is also common for them to die alone.
The pace of modern life is very fast, and people also like to make quick decisions about love. If they love, they will love, and if they don't love, they will divide; Do it if you like it, and don't do it if you don't like it. Doing, like fast food, is fast and fast. Both parties have needs, and they just meet their needs. There is no need to pay genuine feelings, let alone spend a lifetime waiting. If you're serious about being a man, it's silly. In the city of desire, the temptation of colorful is filled with men who satisfy their desires by "doing". Men do not choose to exchange lifelong commitments for problems that can be quickly resolved.
You're not his dish
People often describe whether their food is suitable for them or not.
Before marriage, men are confused and don't know what they really need. They can only slowly grope through practice to find their own vegetable. If you happen to be a man's vegetable, he will love you deeply. "For a woman he loves deeply, he won't easily" do "with you. Even if he does, he won't easily break up with you, and he will be responsible for you.".
Women are all vulnerable animals, and the best way to protect themselves is not to "do" with men easily without understanding their psychology. No one can guarantee love, and it is often women who suffer the deepest injuries after separation. A man needs a woman when his desire strikes, but the woman he thinks of after his desire is his vegetable. When a man's desire strikes, you easily agree to him, which only reduces your perfection in his heart. Wake up the love in his heart for you and let him truly love you, instead of treating you as a companion when desires strike.
Lack of responsibility and fear of taking responsibility
Not all men have a sense of responsibility, and how can people without a sense of responsibility be responsible for women and their families?
A man who only loves "doing" and is unwilling to love is not worth your deep love.
They are used to changing their minds, always thinking that what others have and cannot get is the best. They feel that it doesn't matter if they have a woman, in other words, they don't have a long-term plan to marry and live with a certain woman.
But if someone is willing to just live together and enjoy a short and happy life, he has no problem. With your meticulous care, you can enjoy the lingering sex and emotions while enjoying and looking for your next goal. This can satisfy your own desires without being responsible to the other party.
For men who lack a sense of responsibility, women are just floating clouds. He won't pay too much affection to you, but will only use sweet words to deceive you. Why be so heartbroken for such a man?
A man just wants to do it or not, in the end, he doesn't love you enough.
(Intern Editor: Chen Hao)