Looking at the current internet, there are many standards and standards for good men in the new era. But can men really be that good? Looking at so many cheating men nowadays, are they still fantasizing about such men? Although it is not possible to generalize and deny all men, women need to recognize the reality that there are no really good men in the world, as long as they do not bother with principled mistakes, it is considered good.
However, when women are looking for a boyfriend or husband, they must recognize them clearly and not be deceived by the following types of men. Otherwise, in the future, you will not be able to escape the fate of your husband cheating or even being abandoned.
A man who is as rich as oil
Such men often have a lot of money and feel that all men are not worthy of them. Their pursuit and main theme in life is enjoyment, and they will not be restrained just because you are a wife. So, as a smart woman, if you want to have a happy family, don't choose a wealthy person, otherwise you will often stay alone in an empty house, and your man is in the hotbed of extramarital love and lingering with others.
A man who is too romantic
Such men are often affectionate. Although they can write beautiful and sad love letters to you and create many surprises, they are definitely not the choice for a good husband. In other words, a man who is too romantic cannot marry unless you have full confidence and are not afraid that he will always have a few good sisters, and they are not afraid that they will revolve around women. This type of man is also the most likely type of extramarital affair.
A childish man
Such men are like little children. They have a Oedipus complex. When looking for a lover, they are not looking for a wife, but for a tolerant and caring mother. Sometimes they even cry in front of you. No matter how affectionate such a man may be, never marry him, otherwise you will be very tired throughout your life. If you can't take care of him, then he will seek a new 'harbor'.
A man who throws a thousand dollars
Regardless of the era, women all liked men like this. Would they be willing to spend money on them and feel that this man truly loved her. In fact, such a man is a man without any plans, and also a man who does not consider the future. If you marry such a man, you will carry many carats of diamonds and live a wandering life. Apart from this, there is no talk of happiness. If he is also very generous to others and is favored by a mistress, extramarital affairs will happen sooner or later.
A man who is arrogant at night
A woman should choose a good man, not only based on his appearance and current economic level, but more importantly on his quality. A man with poor quality is not worth trusting for a lifetime. Such a man should be kind, sincere, and responsible. If you choose such a man, even if there are risks in marriage, it will reduce them. A self righteous man will only live his life the way he likes, and when his relationship is gone, he will search for new things. Extramarital love is an inevitable thing.
So, after marriage, women may encounter the fate of their husbands cheating, which is to some extent caused by themselves, because they blindly get married without recognizing the essence of men before marriage. Therefore, it is recommended that women avoid the aforementioned types of men when looking for them.