Post Date December, 02 2023
Many times, it is not the "big things" that violate the principles that destroy marriage. Often, careless details are more lethal. So, how can we live in harmony? Anyone who is married or not can take a look at it, making couples lovers for a lifetime!
1、 Five needs of men:
1. Be understood; 2. Be trusted;
3. Supported; 4. Be identified;
5. Be respected.
"My wife understands me very well. After I get married, there is basically no difference between me and before."
"My wife has always trusted me, as anyone who knows me can attest."
"Why does my wife always support me?"
"Basically recognized, some that are not recognized now will also be recognized in a few days."
[Respect, the most basic]
Don't feel difficult, my wife can do it
2、 Women's Three Needs
1. Sense of security; 2. Romance;
3. To be spoiled and coaxed.
"Wife, woman, just take care of your family affairs. Economic issues are always a man's problem. I have a strong body to protect."
"Romance, I'm not enough."
"Petting and coaxing are not my strong points"
3、 Three major issues that couples cannot be separated from each other
1. Economic issues; 2. Sexual issues;
3. Communication issues.
"Economic issues, no issues at present. Currently, four people at home have a rest, and I work alone, delaying five by one."
"There was a bit of a sexual issue before, but now there is a communication issue that I value most. If this goes wrong, our marriage will end. If it doesn't end now, it proves that there is no problem. If it happens three times a year, Yu Ang guarantees that our marriage will end immediately and all will be resolved."
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4、 More or less between husband and wife
1. Pay more attention to the changes of the other party;
2. Find out more about each other's strengths;
3. Speak more positive words;
4. Less complaints;
5. Less criticism;
6. Less misunderstanding.
5、 Couples everywhere
1. Think about the benefits of the other party;
2. Appreciate each other's strengths;
3. Be considerate of each other's difficulties;
4. Be tolerant of each other's weaknesses.
6、 Four sentences for couples to get along:
1. Sorry, I was wrong!
2. I believe in you!
3. I am proud of you!
4. I love you!
7、 Couples have four things in common:
1. Common life goals;
2. A common living environment;
3. Common life topics;
4. A common life friend.
