Post Date December, 03 2023
If a marriage can last for a long time, it needs the right time, the right place and the right people. The key point is that the couple must love each other sincerely. True love is a close relationship. Too lingering and transparent emotions are often the easiest to disappear. The so-called privacy refers to personal information that has nothing to do with public interests and group interests, that the parties do not want others to know or that others are inconvenient to know, that the parties do not want others to interfere or that others are inconvenient to interfere in, and that the parties do not want others to intrude or that others are inconvenient to intrude into the personal domain. There is no absolute standard and answer for whether couples need to maintain privacy, which varies from person to person. Generally speaking, no matter how close a lover or partner is, there will be some differences more or less. This difference is embodied in the personality, cultivation and thinking mode of both husband and wife, as well as their privacy.
Sometimes couples also need to maintain necessary privacy. As is said, there is no fish until the water is clear. Too much transparency between husband and wife will accelerate the disintegration of this marriage. In fact, the way of marriage is hard to be confused. In marriage, it is necessary to learn to open one eye and close one eye properly and timely, and it is also an important rule to maintain this marriage. Everyone has their own insurmountable principles and bottom line, including the right to privacy. In order to maintain harmonious marriage, couples need to know how to keep a proper distance. Of course, it is not to encourage couples to live apart easily. The body can be intimate occasionally, but the mind and soul must be relatively independent.>> How to Deal with Couple's Contradictions
The reason why the husband and wife suspect the other half of cheating is that they feel that the other half is hiding something from her. Whether the man is really hiding something from her or not, at least the suspicion of the woman shows that she has a sense of crisis for this relationship. Or before, men were too frank with women, and would confess to women about everything. Occasionally, when a man falls into meditation or alienates a woman inadvertently because of something, a woman will inevitably come up with wild thoughts and conclude that a man is suspected of cheating. This reflects from one side that women really care about this marriage, but if this care exceeds the bottom line of marriage, it will lead to the collapse of this relationship.
Perhaps, men are just temporarily upset, do not give women a good face, or occasionally no longer take heart to women. But a woman's sensitivity and delicacy will make her worry about the gains and losses of this relationship. Women may as well put aside their prejudice against men for the time being, turn their attention to their hearts, learn to respect men's privacy and love themselves more. Relying too much on your other half will only make you look extremely humble. In the long run, women will fall into the mire of self-pity and eventually be abandoned by men. Having a sound and strong heart and a rich and broad mind is the only rule for a person to remain invincible in marriage.
(Intern editor: Lai Jiaxing)
