Post Date December, 03 2023
Marriage is one of the most important events in one's life. Especially for women, "men are afraid of entering the wrong line, and women are afraid of marrying the wrong man"! This is really a wise saying. Moreover, many female friends will have anxiety phobia before marriage. What behaviors have betrayed you to show that you have pre-marital phobia? How should we deal with these phenomena?
What is premarital phobia?
If you want to know whether you have premarital phobia, you should first know what is premarital phobia.
The encyclopedia explains that premarital phobia is precisely due to the angle conversion and contrast of life style faced before and after marriage, which causes some people to have an unpredictable and inexplicable worry about their future life when they are about to enter the marriage palace.
She began to worry about the relationship between her mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
Nowadays, there are all kinds of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationships in TV dramas. It seems that the scripts without mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationships are embarrassed to be used for filming.
It is inevitable to encounter the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law after marriage. There are many nervous mother-in-law and daughter-in-law on TV. They don't understand the temperament of future mother-in-law in real life, and most of the girls are young princesses at home. Whether many of the small temper developed will be disliked by mother-in-law, and so on. These have formed a kind of fear of the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
In fact, there is no need to be so nervous at this time, because no amount of worry can predict the future life. The best way is to worry about things tomorrow. Now take advantage of the last bit of time to be your little princess. If you are particularly worried, you can communicate with your boyfriend more about your mother-in-law's work style and open-minded degree.
Worried about the preparation of wedding supplies.
Every girl wants to have a perfect wedding that will be unforgettable for her whole life, so she wants to make preparations in all aspects before marriage. Even though she has written the things that need to be prepared in a small book at the beginning, she will read them again and again, and sort them out over and over again, for fear of any omission and defects in the wedding.
In fact, as long as these things have been discussed in advance, everything you want to buy is ready. After checking it with your boyfriend, you can relax for a while. Don't be too nervous and put too much pressure on yourself.
Worry about the life after marriage.
Everyone said that "marriage is the tomb of love", and also said that men have two faces and two people before and after marriage, whether true or false. In this period of time before marriage, girls will think it is very reasonable and will worry about fear of married life. How to manage married love? How to keep the love after marriage fresh? What if he changes his mind after marriage···
In fact, these worries are just chasing after the wind and shadow. Look at the man around you, and see if he is gentle with you for ten years. If you are really nervous about affecting your life, you can tell him your anxiety. The words, hugs and care he gives you will greatly reduce your anxiety and suspicion.
Worried about the housework.
The housework before marriage can be handled carelessly. What about after marriage? Especially for the young couple who live with their mother-in-law, will the poor housework cause conflicts? Now many girls can't cook. Will they be despised at their mother-in-law's house?
In fact, every woman is a good girl of a housewife. As long as she works hard, it's never too late to learn. If you are particularly worried about housework, you can do all kinds of work before marriage, do your own housework, and be friendly.
Worry about children.
After marriage, it is natural to consider the problem of children. When should we have children? How many children? How to raise the baby after birth? What about children's education? Wait, wait.
In fact, not every girl is born to take care of children. In fact, the problem of child care will become more and more obvious after the outbreak of maternal care after your pregnancy. As for other aspects of children, why don't you think about what you are thinking about doing so much? Do you want to arrange his whole life? Is this the way you used to be when you were a child?
In fact, it will be better to let nature take its course!
Worried about losing charm after marriage.
Unmarried women are the biggest capital. They can enjoy the attentive care of many boys, but after marriage, they must give up some vanity. In addition, they will worry about becoming a yellow face after marriage, losing their charm and slowly aging.
In fact, marriage does not mean going to the grave. After marriage, women can also have their own charm and circle of friends, just to grasp the different degrees before and after marriage. As long as they have their own interests, women will also exude a unique charm when they grow old!
matters needing attention
In fact, women have premarital phobia, and men also have it, but men keep this fear in their hearts and don't show it. Therefore, when women seek comfort, they should also think more for their boyfriends.
Premarital phobia is a normal phenomenon. We should treat it correctly. As long as we find the ultimate cause of fear, we can easily face it.
