Post Date December, 03 2023
????? Turn on the computer and enter "A complete set of tutorials for saving love" in Baidu, and there will be many articles about it. Most of them start with topics such as "how to break up with a girlfriend", "how to save a girlfriend", and "extramarital affairs". Search Taobao for "a complete set of tutorials for saving love", and then brush the brush to see many electronic books. Not to mention the content of these books, it can be seen that many people do not know how to save their feelings, so there will be a market for these books. When we are hungry, we choose to buy a bowl of fast food. This can solve our hunger, but it can not provide much nutrition for our body. In order to keep healthy, we should pay attention to our food and deliver the necessary nutrition for our body every day. This is the key. Our relationship is the same. When there is a problem with our relationship, we can buy some fast food books online or on the market. Although it can alleviate our anxiety, whether it can really be recovered is another matter. Even if it is saved, it is also a big question mark that we can continue to live happily in the future. So in order to save love, in addition to some fast food methods, more importantly, we should grow ourselves from the heart and provide necessary nutrition for our soul, so that we can develop psychologically healthy and also harvest a healthy love.
Provide the soul with the necessary nutrition to make the heart more powerful. It is not possible to exercise in two days a day. Just like our body, we can't eat a fat man at a time. This requires us to obtain nutrition in accordance with a healthy diet for a long time. Next, I will open a healthy recipe for the soul. I believe that after sticking to it, I will make my heart stronger, so that I will have more power to save love. So how can we save love next?
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The first step to save love -- know what true love is
If the love of two people is not true love, but false love and wrong love, then it is of little significance to save. False love is too false, false love is too tired. In order to understand what true love is, it is recommended to read the book 25 Secrets of True Love. We should understand the four rules of true love: 1. The goal of life is not to get married. Your goal in this life is to become the most loving, self-fulfilling and true person possible. 2. You should not focus all your life on finding the other half, but find a person who is "heart to heart" with you. 3. Once the right person is found, the goal should not be to make him make the ultimate commitment, but to create a healthy, loving and respectful true relationship. 4. After establishing a healthy, loving and respectful relationship, a commitment of love will naturally emerge between the two people. Only by adhering to the principle of healthy love can we reap a true love.
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The second step to save love -------- Know the difference between men and women
Love between two people is actually a process of coexistence. We can meet each other's needs. Only by meeting the needs of both parties can two people have more power to take care of each other and make the river of love run smoothly. Many people have been wrongly imposing what they like on the other side, resulting in hurting the other side and tiring themselves. The book "Men from Mars, Women from Venus" deeply discusses the differences between men and women. We might as well take a good look at this book and compare what needs our other half has and what needs we have, so that we can give each other what we need and clearly tell each other what we need, so that we can save love.
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The third step to save love -------- reflect on your own shadow
In love, when we first got together, we all hoped that each other would be happy. But slowly, we found that the other party could not meet their own requirements and seemed to hurt themselves intentionally or unintentionally. Maybe the other party has no intention to hurt us, but we just feel hurt. So when we were hurt, we were very angry, and then we wanted to vent our anger, and finally hurt each other. In this way, in the cycle of mutual injury, the distance between two people is also getting farther and farther. If we want to save love and make the distance between two people closer, then we must reduce the harm to each other. We need to see what psychological shadows we have. These psychological shadows lead to the feeling of injury. The book "Dialysis of Childhood" allows us to return to childhood and look for the most primitive psychological shadows. When we see the psychological shadow of our childhood, we will not always blame each other.
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The fourth step to save love -------- Love yourself well
Many people are not happy in love and feel that the other party doesn't love themselves at all. In fact, if you ask her, have you loved yourself? The answer must be no. If we don't love ourselves well, we will always feel unsatisfied, so no matter how much each other does, we will still feel that the other doesn't love us enough. Suhei's "Love Yourself Well" touches the deepest part of the human soul and discusses how to love yourself well. I believe that only by learning to take care of ourselves can we radiate light and heat to warm others. The same is true when saving love. Only when we are a healthy person at that time, we can warm each other's people, and they will be willing to return to their own side. If we go to detain the other party, the purpose is to make the other party take better care of themselves in the future. The other party will want to escape when seeing the heavy pressure.
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The fifth step to save love -------- to win over each other
After we have repaired ourselves, we will try to win over each other, which will greatly increase our chances of success. How can we win over each other? You can read two books, "Love is Cherishing Each Other" and "Five Languages of Love". The book "Love is Cherishing Each Other" directly lists many controversial points in our lives, and then tells us how to speak specifically, which can be repaired. This book is really a blueprint for practical operation. The book "Five Languages of Love" tells us what each other needs, so that when we strive for each other, we can do something to meet their real needs. In this way, when the other party is saved, it can also make the relationship between the two people very harmonious.
There are many ways to save love. The above is mainly the way to introduce the soul recipes to tell us how to strengthen our hearts first, and then attract the other party back. Only when you really change and know what the other party's real needs are, such love will be saved for a longer time.
