Post Date December, 02 2023
Girls are generally educated by their parents not to fall in love early. They must be at the appropriate age before dating. If they have a crush, they should inform their family in a timely manner and have them check it out. Because you are still young and have weak recognition skills, it is still possible for parents of past friends to help you check it out for your future partner. Indeed, when you encounter the man you love and have the desire to live with him forever, even if your parents cannot force you to do anything, you should have a clear understanding of yourself. At least these 12 suggestions can be considered carefully.
1. Don't choose a man whose upbringing environment is completely different from yours
Since ancient times, the concept of matching families is indeed reasonable. Urban people and rural people, as well as children from wealthy families and children from impoverished families, are not the same people, and it is difficult to reconcile them. Especially for men who grow up in a closed environment, their inherent bad habits cannot be corrected in the short term. Therefore, when girls encounter men who are not in the right household and pursue them, they must be rational and overcome their impulsiveness. Choosing such men as husbands is best done with caution in marriage.
2. Don't choose a man who lacks emotional appeal and doesn't understand humor and humor
Men who lack emotional appeal are usually either extremely introverted or extremely rigid, without interest or understanding what romance is. It's okay to make friends with such men, but if they don't get along well, they can't just leave. However, if we choose him as our marriage partner, the situation will be completely different. We must live in a very dull environment every day, endure boring conversations, and women's happiness will be gradually suppressed by this kind of man. Isn't it terrifying?
3. Don't choose a man who is too young and too different from you
When a woman has a choice, it is best not to marry a man who is younger than herself as her husband, especially a man who is much younger than herself will definitely not be the same person. Women can play with men who are much younger than themselves, and can also taste fresh and exciting, but at best, young men are just fast food without too much nutrition. After satisfying their taste and desires, women do not need to gamble their lives.
4. Don't choose a man with a violent personality who is not with you
Some girls know before falling in love that such a man cannot be chosen and cannot be lost to him. However, once many girls fall in love, their IQ drops to zero and they can't help it. She may view his bad temper as very masculine and masculine, and women will have a sense of excitement to be conquered. It's just that this kind of man is unwilling to compromise and it's difficult to listen to others' opinions, and is destined not to conform to the constraints of their family.
5. Don't choose a man who is too ambitious and often overlooks you
Most women like men with careers and prestige, but in real life, such men are extremely rare and unlikely to be bumped into by themselves. Moreover, husbands who are overly career oriented often overlook the presence of their family and the feelings of their wives in order to work. For such men, career is the value of their existence. Therefore, career oriented men often rely on superficial beauty to achieve practicality in life.
6. Don't choose men who are addicted to online games and cannot extricate themselves
Some men have average careers and not many excellent jobs, but instead have many hobbies and are proficient in everything. Playing with such men as friends may be enjoyable, life will be fulfilling, and it may bring you beautiful memories. Marriage requires both management and responsibility and dedication. Living with a man who sees life as a game is definitely not the right choice, and choosing a marriage partner is not just a joke.
7. Don't choose men with a significant educational gap
A person's education level will definitely affect their outlook on life and things. There is a significant difference in education between two people, and their ways of thinking are definitely different. When dating someone with a much higher education than themselves, they usually feel like a mentally disabled fool. Moreover, education has a significant impact on ideology, behavioral habits, and thinking patterns, making it difficult for you to follow suit when marrying such a man.
8. Don't choose strange men who don't have much interest in women
There can be no more men like Liu Xiahui in this world, so the vast majority of men are lascivious. However, there are also alternative types of men who do not like women. These men are either gay or gay. If a man is not lascivious, he will not be interested in women, and such men are definitely not allowed to marry. For women, there are really not many men who can both lose their virginity and marry.
9. Don't choose a man who is too handsome to give women a sense of security
A handsome man usually makes women feel insecure, making them feel that he is prone to provoking trouble and attracting butterflies. Moreover, handsome men are mostly arrogant and narcissistic, making it difficult for them to communicate. The important thing is that in this world, many women will inexplicably fall in love with handsome men. If this handsome man still has a little talent, it will definitely make his girlfriend or wife live in fear.
10. Don't choose a man who has too many romantic experiences and is promiscuous
There is a man who sees his girlfriend around him as a different scenery, and changing girlfriends is like changing a lantern. Such men all have a common characteristic, which is that their emotions are rich enough to approach promiscuity. Their commonality is that they only love and do not get married, and they dare not take responsibility. Therefore, such a man does not understand responsibility and responsibility. Once married to such a man, one can definitely doubt their original intelligence.
11. Don't choose a stingy man who is unwilling to spend money on his girlfriend
Being diligent and frugal in managing a household and doing everything is a quality that men should possess. Without foresight, there must be immediate worries. Just a man struggling to make money for what? Isn't it just for the woman I deeply love to live a better life? The impulse to spend money for a woman you like indicates that you have a place in the man's heart and he cares about you. And if he always calculates whether it's worth spending money on you, such a man cannot be a husband.
12. Don't choose a man who lacks filial piety and doesn't understand respecting the elderly and cherishing the young
If the man you know has always had a bad relationship with his parents and doesn't even think of going home to visit them during holidays, then such a man generally lacks the cells of love and only accepts others' love for him without knowing how to repay it. Choosing such a selfish man as a husband, you must be mentally prepared to only give love and basically not receive love in return. Otherwise, forget it!
Summary: The above 12 suggestions hope to help female friends see their future more clearly. It should be noted that dating and marriage are two different concepts, and dating is only a matter for the two of you. However, getting married is a matter for both families, and it is also a lifelong matter for both of you. Even if there are bound to be obstacles during dating, he may coax you and it may be better, But after getting married, there are too many big and small things at home. If you two can't agree on some viewpoints, it will definitely affect you after getting married.
