The love between couples is like the four seasons of the year, and corresponding care measures need to be taken at each period. That is to say, couples must understand the changing patterns of love and meet the special needs of love at different times, otherwise they may not be able to make the branches of love flourish.
The Seasonal Changes of Love
The Spring of Love
Wonderful love is the spring in love. In this season, you are full of longing for your future, and you feel that you and the other party will always be happy. In each other's eyes, they are both full of vitality and attraction, filled with curiosity. You can't imagine not loving each other, everything is so perfect and effortless. The plan for a year lies in spring. While enjoying a happy time is important, don't forget that this is a season of sowing and cultivating. Perfect dreams are always easy to break, and you should take good care of this fragile relationship and lay a solid foundation for a better future.
Summer of Love
Summer is a season of growth. Through the romantic flame of spring, couples began to realize that each other was not as perfect as they had imagined, and frustration and disappointment followed. The giving and receiving of love, as well as the sensitivity to each other, are no longer as obvious as before. You realize that sometimes you don't always feel happy, you don't always love each other, and you may even suspect that this is not the love you expect. Those unrealistic couples who fantasize that love will always be spring begin to resent each other, feel disappointed in their current relationship, and even think of giving up.
However, temporary difficulties may not necessarily be a bad thing, as this proves that you are gradually maturing. Everyone makes mistakes, and in some ways, we are not perfect. You should start to discover some of the problems that exist between each other and strive to improve the relationship between the two. You need to meet each other's various needs, because at this time the other person needs your love even more.
Autumn of Love
Autumn is always the season of harvest, and so is the autumn of love. In the past season, you have sowed, cultivated, and irrigated with care, and all your care has paid off in this season. This is the golden season, which can bring you a sense of satisfaction through hard work and sweetness. Of course, it's not that this season's love is already perfect, but your love has matured. In this season, sharing the feeling of mutual happiness and the fruits of love with your partner will make your love more solid.
The Winter of Love
In the four seasons of your love, there will definitely be harsh winters. In this season, you are in a state of unresolved pain and oppression, and the outcome waiting for you is unknown. Whether you can resist the harsh winter depends on you all. In this season, many unresolved old and new issues will come to you in the future, and painful feelings will begin to emerge. The only way you can survive this cold winter is through mutual understanding, tolerance, and mutual support. I believe that with your efforts, after passing through the dark winter, the next spring will come back again. It is precisely because of hardships that your love becomes more stable. After this experience, your relationship will stand the test even more.
(Intern Editor: Lai Jiaxing)