Post Date December, 03 2023
1. After marriage, if you still want to do your career, I will do my best to support you and undertake the housework I should do. I confess to you that I can't distinguish between bean sprouts and mung bean sprouts, and I will make a mess of the kitchen, but I will try my best to follow the words of the kitchen food and try to cultivate myself into a great cook.
2. If you are eager to avoid the noise and annoyance of the world and to be a quiet little woman, then I will do my best to work and earn more money to maintain the family, but only my smelly socks will be washed by you.
3. I promise you that I will push away some unnecessary entertainment and go home early, because I know you will be lonely at home and will be afraid for me. Moreover, I promise you that no matter how tired I am at home, I will listen to you carefully about what you have experienced in the day, because I know that you need understanding and support. I am your husband, which is my responsibility.
4. Have a baby with me. I hope we can put only thirty-six candles on your birthday cake with our children on your fortieth birthday. Moreover, I believe that our children will change their old naughty ways and say to you with a solemn face like a small adult: "Oh my God, Mom, you look only thirty years old, and my classmates say you are more like my sister!"
5. I will be loyal to you and our family. Because I know that this is a man's responsibility. And I know that if I betray you and have an unclean relationship with other women, I will feel guilty. Guilt makes me blame myself. Self-blame makes me face less to you, and face less to you will make me want to escape from your still pure eyes and want to leave you, and leaving you is the last thing my generation wants to do.
6. If one day you are tired, and you are eager to leave me to fly freely, I will bid farewell to you, although I stubbornly believe that the sweetness in your arms is far better than any freedom in the world.
But I have no right to hope that you think the same. I think I will say to you: tired, go home; Tired, go home; Hurt, go home. I am your husband, and I will wait for your return. This home is your home, and the lamp of this home will burn for you forever.
7. If one day you fall in love with another man and want to leave me, I will admit to you that I will be jealous, angry, sad and painful, but I will finally choose to break up. I just hope that man can treat you, care for you and take care of your life as I treat you.
I will still bless you to God as before, and because you are not around me, I can't take care of you personally, so I will pray God to bless you a thousand times.
8. Maybe I will have a new wife in a few years. Maybe I will die alone. In any case, if you have difficulties, please tell me that I will do my best to help you without violating morality.
9. I don't know whether we have been together in the past life or not, but that is the past, and it is no longer important; I don't know whether we will be together in the next life or not, but it's too far away for me to grasp.
I only care about this life and this life. I hope that in my lifetime, I can do my best to keep you in my arms, free from wind and rain, healthy, safe and happy.
10. I love you.
