Post Date December, 02 2023
Many people have complained that this is an era of looking at the face, and that "beauty is justice" has almost become the creed of young people. Many people who are not good-looking have experienced being treated differently because of their unattractive looks.
In fact, judging a person by his appearance is not advisable, but judging a person without looking at his face may not be entirely correct. If the eyes are the window of the soul, then appearance is the embodiment of a person's living conditions.
How a person lives can be seen from his face and temperament. Zhizi got married at the age of 25, and has been married for 5 years now, giving birth to a child. She has a close friend, called Mei Ting, who is her age and only got married two years ago. The two are also colleagues from the same company, known as the two flowers of the unit,. Zhi Zi got married and had children early, but she paid special attention to skin care and body maintenance, and she took care of her skin and exercised every day. Therefore, although she got married early, she still looked like a young girl just emerging from society.
While Berry Ting got married late, she has relaxed her demands on herself since getting married, rarely taking care of her skin and exercising. After giving birth to a child, she has completely lost her figure, but she is not aware of it at all.
Once, both of them went to a company dinner. During the banquet, while everyone was eating and drinking heartily, a colleague teased them both and said, "Mei Ting, you got married two years later than Zhi Zi. Why do you look more like a yellow faced woman now?" Mei Ting was shocked and couldn't speak on the spot when she heard this remark.
That evening, she returned home and looked in the mirror at the swimming ring on her waist, her face yellow and pale. She only realized that because of her indifferent attitude, she gradually became a yellow faced woman. It turns out that our attitudes towards life are hidden in our faces.
The German philosopher Schopenhauer once said something about looks: "A person's face usually tells more interesting things than his tongue, because the face is the summary of everything he says, an abbreviation of his thoughts and aspirations. The tongue can only express a person's thoughts, while the face can express his nature."
The main idea is that we can see a person's nature from their face.
As the saying goes, "Phase comes from the heart.". "A person's face can really tell to a great extent what kind of person he is.". This is not to say that we only see whether a person is beautiful or not, but rather the temperament that emanates from the inside out.
"If a woman often has a quiet smile, decent conversation, and elegant makeup, then even if she doesn't say it, we know she is an exquisite woman.". Such women often strive to do their best in life and career.
"If a person idles around, dresses sloppily, has messy hair, and has black circles on his face that cannot be removed, even if he is wearing a famous brand and eating a big meal, we won't consider him a serious and quality oriented person.".
Sometimes, you don't have to say who you are. People can tell who you are by looking at your face. In life, we sometimes encounter such people. They sneer at beautiful faces, thinking that good-looking men are all sissies, and beautiful women are all vases. They feel that they are not good-looking but talented.
They naively believe that appearance is innate, but fail to see that maintaining appearance is also a matter of effort. They may even laugh at those who are ordinary looking but have been trying to improve themselves, because they don't understand that God may not have given you a good card, but you can try to play the bad card well.
Such people are often people who do not pay attention to the quality of life. And some people, they will strive to improve themselves, seriously live, hoping to one day lead an ideal life. Such a person, God will help him.
