Post Date December, 02 2023
The pattern of unrequited love is mostly: initially, both parties only engage in spiritual communication, and then one party develops love and becomes trapped in their own woven love network, often implying the other party with obscure words and actions. If the other party is under the age of 25, they usually reject the single lover directly, while those over 30 are mostly "silent", which often leads to misunderstandings and awkward relationships between the two.
Unrequited love may occur at any age group, but it is more common between the ages of 14 and 18, as young boys and girls are in a period of fantasy and lack self-control. Among marriageable men and women, 60% of them have experienced "unrequited love", and 20% of "passionate seeds" may also have unrequited love for others 2-3 times a year. In addition, elderly people over 60 years old also occasionally experience unrequited love.
Faust believes that the universality of unrequited love is closely related to the influence of film culture. Because there are many persistent unrequited love stories in the film, the success stories that finally touched the other person are even more heartwarming. Therefore, many people mistakenly believe that love develops from unrequited love, making it easy to fall into "unrequited love" and find it difficult to extricate oneself.
People who have a single love for others may seem pitiful, but research shows that those who are in love often end up feeling anxious. 70% of men and women who are "single minded" by others said in a survey that at first they would be proud of their charm, but later they gradually felt annoyed and even angry with themselves because they were unable to speak up and refuse directly. Fortunately, most "unrequited love" experiences a short lifespan, with an average duration of only 36 days each time. The vast majority of people can quickly overcome the shadow.
