Post Date December, 03 2023
Being single is a problem that men and women of marriageable age don't want to face, but it is also a very realistic problem. A survey found that many men can't marry a wife. Not to mention that there are still many single men and women in the future at least now. There are various reasons for being single. You must know why you are single and why you deserve to be single. Now let's give you a detailed introduction.
Problems in concept or mentality
There are many points and parts in this concept or mentality. It may be that she doesn't want to enter into love relationship and doesn't want to love at all. On the one hand, some people may be very longing for the arrival of love and for someone to accompany them. On the other hand, she is very scared and has a special sense of fear. The fear of love, the fear of strangers, and the fear of the unknown.
The requirements for mate selection are too high
A considerable number of picky singles have too high requirements for mate selection. They not only require each other to go to the hall, go to the kitchen, but also have high requirements for other aspects. However, they often fail to meet the standard and treat others with strict conditions. When others do not meet the ideal appearance, they will pass without mercy. They are not good at themselves and have high expectations of others. This means that personal hardware and requirements do not match.
No action or initiative
This inaction mainly means that we are in a fixed life mode all day long
Or three points and one line. People who contact with each other every day are people in their own small circle. They can't meet more people of the opposite sex, and they can't satisfy themselves with new people of the opposite sex appearing in their own lives. We don't go out on our own, we just look forward to this so-called fate.
Disregard appearance
A person's appearance is really important. In the early days, when a person first came into contact, especially in the first two months, the attractiveness of a person's appearance accounted for almost 70%. If the person's inner is not particularly bad, his appearance could account for at least 70%. Since appearance is so critical, many people don't pay much attention to it.
Too low EQ
These people often have not experienced the problem of love and have never tasted the taste of love. Of course, these people are scarce. For love, it is as clean and pure as a white lotus. In the face of love, they will suddenly be dumbfounded, immersed in their own world, and do not understand the love signals of others, so they are single.
You can't be alone all the time. You need to find your partner to go on together. So, at the normal age of marriage, you should say goodbye to being single. The reason for being single may be that you are too shy, or that you are too sloppy or your EQ is too low. These factors may lead to your being single. So you must change your shortcomings and make yourself better, To attract the opposite sex.
