Post Date December, 03 2023
My husband is cheating. He fools around with his mistress on Wednesday and Friday every Monday. He stays at home with my son and me the rest of the time. I often have the feeling of being used by my husband as a tool to vent my desire. For this matter, I have cried countless times, and my husband has promised to break up with my mistress countless times, but he has failed to do so.
My husband said that he and I have shared weal and woe, which he will bear in mind.
The husband also said that he and the third child were in love with each other sincerely. He smelled the femininity from the third child, but only the femininity from me.
How can a woman watch her husband fool around with another woman? For this reason, I have looked for the third child many times. Every time I saw the third child, I beat her up. Even so, she followed my husband shamelessly.
The third moved home several times to avoid my violent beating.
I want to divorce, but I am not willing to:
1) My husband and I have a lovely child, now 7 years old.
2) When he married his husband, he was just a migrant worker from other places, and could be said to be destitute. Even the wedding house was bought by my parents. My husband was handsome, filial and kind to me.
3) We spent five or six years doing business together. I can't forget the hard work during that time.
I admit that I am a strong woman. To be exact, I have a sharp mouth and a beancurd heart. When communicating with her husband on weekdays, she always takes a high attitude. Maybe I think I have paid too much for my family. However, in any case, my love for my husband is absolutely sincere.
Now, my husband is constantly swinging between me and my mistress, which makes me very distressed.
To tell the truth, the third is not a beautiful woman, or she listens to her husband.
My husband has been cheating for more than half a year. I'm really tired with the quarrel.
Should I continue to spend time with my husband, or should I help him and his mistress?
From the point of view of love: your husband loves the mistress more.
From the perspective of dependence: your husband is more dependent on you.
It's hard to say that your husband is at best an idiot at your marriageable age. Over the years, the reason why you become a "woman" is that you are basically worried about your business. Because I firmly believe that there must be a lazy man behind every woman.
Everyone is a species of disrespect. The more you pay for someone, the more difficult it is to be unfeeling. It is like that no matter how children hurt their parents, parents will give their children the most selfless love. Now, the main reason why you don't leave your husband is that you invest too much in him.
Why does your husband keep swinging between you and the third? It's because he enjoys being treated as an uncle by the third, and doesn't give up your money machine.
Here, I just want to say one word to you: women can give their husbands unselfish love, but they must never present love as inferior love.
I don't think your husband has the right to say that you are grumpy, let alone to dismiss you as a woman.
Ask yourself: don't you want to find a capable man, and then only responsible for beautiful? Unfortunately, you don't have that fortune right now.
Your husband took your hard-earned money and squandered it with the mistress, just for the pleasure of being an uncle. Why?
You try to maintain your family's business, but also serve your husband as an uncle. Why?
Such a man will come to you for remarriage within two years. If you want to accept him again, it depends on your mood.
(Intern editor: Lai Jiaxing)
