In the life of husband and wife, cheating can be said to be a difficult thing to face. Especially for men, it is hard for them to accept that their women have an affair. At the same time, women who have an affair usually cover up their infidelity. Even if men have doubts, it is difficult to get the real answer from women. However, women's affairs often show up in life. Here is how women behave after having an affair.
She suddenly became fond of dressing
Seductive underwear is usually a must for an affair. When your wife comes back late, she always wears newly bought underwear, such as bra, underwear, socks, etc. Or, whenever your wife is on business, traveling, or attending a meeting, she always carries some sexy underwear in her suitcase or uses the best cosmetics to look very young and beautiful.
She suddenly competed with you to answer the phone
In the past, when the phone rang in your home, it was not always your wife who answered the phone. Suddenly, from one day on, she always rushed ahead of you to answer the phone, and the voice of conversation was lower than usual. After a few words, she hung up in a hurry.
The conversation became abnormal
Your wife and you talk less and watch more and more TV; The name of a certain opposite sex is often mentioned in her mouth suddenly or the name often mentioned in the past is suddenly not mentioned; Your wife starts to say some opinions or jokes that are not as usual.
Sudden changes in sexual habits
Your wife finds an excuse to refuse to have sex with you, and no longer calls you affectionately when making love. However, sometimes there is the opposite situation. For example, she suddenly becomes "sexually" ambitious and requires some new lovemaking skills, even tricks, and many new tricks are unknown to you.
Your wife suddenly goes to work early or comes back late. When you call her, it is always difficult to reach her; The time of working overtime or taking refresher courses at night is much longer than usual, and they can't return as scheduled; Someone found that your wife often went out of hotels or restaurants with the opposite sex.
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When you are at home, your wife is always restless and restless. In her dream, she eats words and calls the name of the opposite sex. Her previous consideration for you suddenly disappears.
Hang up without speaking after the phone is connected
There seems to be something wrong with your home phone. When you connect, the other party doesn't speak. After you "hello" several times, the other party hangs up. If this happens several times, it may be the signal that your wife has had an affair.
She suddenly became unreasonable and unkind
In order to find psychological balance, the partner of the affair will sometimes deliberately find fault and irritate you, so that she will feel that she is with a person as irritable and irritable as you, and the affair is also natural.
The usual working habits and living habits suddenly changed
Your wife's working hours are suddenly extended without reason; The number of overtime becomes frequent; Participate more actively in all activities of the unit, such as dance, fraternity, tourism, etc. than usual.
Your wife often brings flowers, gifts or souvenirs; When you help her wash clothes, you find Valentine's Day card or discount card of a hotel or dance hall; You and your wife haven't had sex for a long time, but suddenly you found a condom or pill in her pocket or handbag.
Colleagues, neighbors, classmates and friends look at you very special
When your wife has an affair, you usually know that you are the latest. Your colleagues, neighbors, classmates or friends may be the first. You know, when they see or hear that your wife has an affair, they want to tell you and worry that you can't bear it, so they always look at you with different eyes.
Your wife suddenly became bodybuilding
In order to please her lover, your wife will suddenly start to lose weight, insist on doing aerobics, and even often go to the gym.
Your child becomes very sticky and active
The child is the third. When the mother has an affair, the child will be the third to notice it, and will be confused, and then think it is because he has done something wrong that provokes his mother. Under great psychological pressure, he may urinate, make trouble, make friends, fight, and even get sick in the heavy rain. These behaviors of the child are mainly subconsciously hoping to draw the mother's attention back from the affair.
She no longer tries to persuade you to change your bad habits
If you have bad habits such as gambling and drinking, your wife has been nagging and trying to persuade you to change it in the past, but now she suddenly stops nagging.
Stop complaining about sexual dissatisfaction
Your wife used to complain that sex life could not satisfy her, but now she no longer complains. Maybe she has got satisfaction from her lover
Trying to save private money
When your wife is trapped in an affair and unable to extricate herself, it is natural to plan for their spending together and even for their future combination. At this time, her financial affairs are no longer as transparent as usual, and even the family expenses that she was willing to bear before are also haggard, or unwilling to pay.
The above is the common expression of women's emotional smuggling, but this does not mean that all those who have the above expression must have an affair. However, it can be said with certainty that if eight of the sixteen performances appear at the same time and still do not converge after being found, then the possibility of her emotional smuggling is very high, which is worthy of attention or vigilance.