With a complete marriage and family, why do you still have an extramarital affair? This question is really difficult to answer, everyone's reasons are different, the only thing they have in common is that they have all betrayed their marriage. It is not ruled out that some people want to find excitement and believe that extramarital love is beautiful, but facts have proven that extramarital love is the cruelest thing, especially for women who engage in extramarital love, which will only harm others and not benefit themselves.
The first disaster: damaging one's physical and mental health
Women who engage in extramarital affairs, as long as their conscience remains intact, will feel guilty towards their husbands and children and be condemned by conscience and morality. Once a woman falls into the quagmire of extramarital love, it is difficult to extricate herself. Emotionally, it is "constantly cutting, but the logic is still chaotic". Husband resentment, contempt from family and friends, social criticism, feeling physically and mentally exhausted, endangering one's own health. Because of extramarital love, a woman may go to bed with this man today, have sex with that man tomorrow, and may be infected with AIDS and sexually transmitted diseases. Some women engage in extramarital affairs and even put their lives into it.
Second disaster: easily deceived and deceived
Women who engage in extramarital affairs are easily deceived. Some have been deceived into lust, some have been deceived into wealth, and some have lost both their wealth and lust. Women who succeed in their careers and fail in their marriages are more likely to be scammed into extramarital affairs. Some unmarried infatuated women engage in extramarital affairs with married men who have achieved success in their careers. Men swear to divorce their original partners and marry them, which is a scam.
Little do they know that most men love to marry their first wife and children. When they are mentally empty, they seek stimulation from their extramarital partners. It is impossible for them to divorce their first wife and marry their lover. By the time a woman wakes up, she has suffered a huge loss of youth, and regret is beyond reach. This is probably the "insight" and "profound insights" that women gain from engaging in extramarital affairs? Unmarried women who engage in extramarital affairs have sacrificed their most precious thing to their extramarital partners, is this the "self sacrifice" of women who engage in extramarital affairs?
The third disaster: damaging the husband's reputation
Women engaging in extramarital affairs will make their husbands wear green hats. As a big man who cannot control his wife and leads to a red apricot falling out of the wall, he may feel that he has lost his dignity and cannot lift his head in front of others, resulting in a loss of initiative. Some men with fragile emotions may also lose the courage to be human.
A netizen wrote a letter saying that his comrade's nephew and his newlywed wife went to Hainan Island to raise chickens. Later, he returned to the mainland alone and asked his wife to continue raising chickens on the island. I reminded him, "Are you so confident with your wife? Be careful she ran away with someone else." He said, "No way." Unfortunately, what I said was that his wife soon eloped with a young man. My comrade's nephew felt ashamed and in a fit of anger, he committed suicide by drinking pesticide. Although there is no inevitable causal relationship between the woman's extramarital affair and her husband's death, it is a direct cause.