Post Date December, 03 2023
There is a saying that goes like this: "It's men who cheat, but not because the chips are too low." Perhaps we have been unable to verify the original origin of this sentence, but its popularity on the internet has still not receded. The reason, I think, is probably that it expresses the majority of people's recognition of the sexual side of men as carnivores.
However, this sentence has somewhat discouraged good men, made women feel chilly after listening to it, and even somewhat abetted men to learn from old habits and stir the wind to ignite the fire.
Therefore, I would like to be added at the end of this sentence: "It's because men dare not easily cheat, and it's because women are too easy to deal with." The reason for adding this is to balance the fairness of this sentence, and to provide countermeasures for women.
Therefore, it should be clear what the sky will always be blue to say below. Yes, I just want to answer the question of female compatriots bluntly: What kind of women are the least likely to be betrayed by men. The sky is always blue, which can be roughly summarized into the following four categories:
One is a woman who is very independent and self-reliant.
I have repeatedly emphasized that if a woman wants a man not to leave you, you must let him understand that without him you will lead a happier and happier life. "The best and most effective way to make him understand this is to be a woman who is independent and self-reliant.". "Only when you become self-reliant and strong will you not make him feel burdened and will make him genuinely look at you from within.". As a result, he may even feel a bit uneasy about you, worried that you will ignore the value of his existence, and afraid that you will exceed his ability and social status.
"These three things are the minimum survival needs of all male animals, including men, and they are more important than their own lives.". Therefore, when one day he finds out that you are a very independent and self-reliant woman, even if this self-reliance endangers his belief life, then he will become hesitant, more cautious, pay more attention to you than before, and care more about your feelings. At this time, not only do you not have to nag him, follow him, and interrogate him every day, but he will definitely respect you from the bottom of his heart, and he will never lose his faith in the man in his heart.
Second, love yourself more than his woman.
If a woman loves her husband more than herself, let me be frank. You can just wait for it. There are only two extremes: one is that he is a very good man, and you can make him even better through your love; The other is to completely spoil him, spoiling him so much that he truly regards himself as the emperor of his family, and the emperor is never satisfied with a woman.
"They will think, 'Anyway, you love me so much, you can't live without me. Even if I have a woman outside who made a small mistake or something, you will easily forgive me.'". Even they will subconsciously regard your love for him that exceeds their own, as a slave tendency of women, and even more seriously, they will think that women are inherently so cheap.
Therefore, women and men are different, and a woman's love requires more prerequisites. The prerequisite is that he truly loves you, and he can see and empathize with all your efforts and labor. Only in this way can you have meaning and not send yourself to the brink of marriage.
Therefore, only when a woman loves herself more than she can you hold onto the marriage more firmly. Simply paying blindly cannot achieve the stability and happiness of marriage.
"Any intelligent woman, most happy women, are first of all kind to themselves, because they understand that only when they are bright and beautiful can they exude more feminine charm, and only when they love themselves can they love you.". "I think it is very foolish and pathetic for a woman to avoid taking the bus in order to save one yuan or buying cosmetics in order to save her children's milk powder. Although her behavior and soul are commendable and valuable, she is the most vulnerable to betrayal by men.".
The reason for saying this is because the fundamental reason that truly determines whether a man betrays you is not how much you love him, but how much he loves you and how charming you are. However, a woman's charm must begin with loving herself.
Therefore, only when a woman loves herself more than she can you hold onto the marriage more firmly. Simply paying blindly cannot achieve the stability and happiness of marriage.
Third, a shrew is not a deadly woman.
I know a man who is proficient in eating, drinking, gambling, and everything. However, among the "five poisons" of men, he only dares not to go whoring or play with other women outside.
It is often said that gambling and whoring are inseparable, but why can he be so clearly distinguished, even under the encouragement and inducement of many people, he dare not commit it? The reason is simple. He has a roaring wife in his family. This woman really loves him and she can let him on any issue, but she never allows him to play with women.
Once, just because her husband played a joke with a woman, she was able to punch and kick her husband in front of a dozen men. Finally, she even used a knife, but instead of hitting the man, she cut herself twice. So, from then on, this man will be very cautious with any woman, let alone go whoring.
"I am not using this example to teach women to play their lives with men or become shrewds, but rather to illustrate the problem: Men's betrayal often appears to be the fault of men alone, but it indirectly has a great relationship with women. This may be because women are too weak and lack principles, and there is always no bottom line when encountering major issues of right and wrong.", Thus, to a certain extent, acquiescence and encouragement of men's betrayal. Of course, I must emphasize that although women should have very strict principles of marital loyalty, they must not be too overbearing. If the kite string is pulled too tightly, it will definitely break.
Fourth, women who are weak in appearance but strong in heart.
A netizen once asked me what kind of woman I like best in terms of appearance, if not appearance. My answer is, a woman who is weak in appearance but powerful in heart.
The reason why the sky is always blue is that there is a very powerful magnetic field in this kind of woman, which constantly infects and restricts you. On the one hand, the softness of her appearance makes her more feminine, and gives you a desire for male protection. This charm and desire will become an attractive magnetic force, making you inseparable from him; On the other hand, her very powerful heart can make you feel unfathomable. It can provide you with an inexhaustible inspiration for life, and even make you feel a little dependent and humble. The need for inspiration and the humbleness of dependence have become a controlled magnetic force, making you fear her and not lose sight of her existence because you are too close to her.
