Speaking of fraudulent marriages, I recall a news report a few days ago that a man pretended to be a military police officer in more than a dozen cases of fraudulent marriages. Today, I saw a woman get married 22 times in six years, with the shortest being less than a month and the longest being less than three months. Whether a man or a woman is involved in a fraudulent marriage, it is a matter of sadness, injury, and wealth. Nowadays, it is difficult for men to get married, and serious bride price money, new houses and new houses have made many poor losers shy and shy away. Many women are attracted to this point, indicating that they only need a small amount of money to get married, and then swindle away the money and it will never be seen again. So how should men view marriage and identify female cheaters?
Based on emotions
Real marriage is about living at home, so men must value quality when choosing their wives. Most female cheaters are beautiful in appearance, otherwise they will not be liked at first sight. Even if they are introduced by a matchmaker, they will have to spend some time together and gain sufficient understanding before making up their minds. A true marriage is one in which there is mutual support in life, not the bride price. Therefore, no matter how much a man wants to get married, he should not hold the mentality of spending money to buy a wife. You know, most of the wives you buy are unreliable.
Get to know each other more
It is commonly said that the onlooker sees clearly from the sidelines, and understands people from her friends, relatives, colleagues, and even neighbors. These people have been with her for a long time and see clearly, rather than just seeing what she is willing to show you, as you do. If you only know everything from her mouth, it is inevitable that you will not be biased and blind to her, thereby believing in her deeply. Others can see her most clearly. If you don't let her friends, neighbors, and colleagues know more about her, you won't be deceived.
Meet each other's family
In the article, Xiaofang and the matchmaker are close relatives, not their own parents, so they all know her according to the matchmaker. In ancient times, there was a "matchmaker's word on the orders of parents" in the Six Rites, which was considered a formal marriage. When planning to get married, one should meet the other's parents and salute them as if they were in law. Otherwise, the other's parents would not know and there would be no point in saying anything about cheating.
See if the other person is honest
Honesty is the key to getting along with a husband and wife. Husband and wife are the closest relationships in the world, not even their parents and children. Therefore, honesty between husband and wife is important. "If you can't even be honest, and you can't say that for a long time, once you hide something, it will inevitably trigger suspicion. Once the suspicion is planted, then the marriage won't last long.".