Post Date December, 03 2023
Over the past five thousand years, China has undergone significant changes, from a conservative feudal dynasty to the current reform and opening up new society. Especially since the reform and opening up, there have been rapid changes, causing many people to fail to keep up with the trend in a timely manner and fall behind nicknames such as' backwardness' and 'old-fashioned'. This has also made some families no longer calm and peaceful.
For example, when a couple keeps up with the situation, one likes fashion and knows how to keep up with the trend, while the other's thoughts are still stuck in the old society, unable to accept the latest trends, unable to face too open a situation, and having differences in ideas and hobbies, it is inevitable that there will be arguments. If neither of them communicates and mediates in a timely manner, over time, it will be like a snowball, with more and more conflicts and larger differences, In severe cases, they may also go their separate ways, so if a family member's thoughts cannot keep up with the trend, it will be a dangerous warning. In this situation, it is necessary to know how to resolve it in a timely manner. Personally, it is best for the person who does not understand the trend to make some changes, because society is constantly developing, and your thoughts should always stop in the past. If even your family starts to dislike you, it is very likely that society will also gradually eliminate you, If you can't keep up with the situation, it's not just about being looked down upon by people at home, but also about the changes in society in the future. Therefore, it's recommended that those who are still conservative and rigid in their thinking should let go of this mentality and learn to follow up with the pace of society in a timely manner, so as not to be eliminated or disliked by society and family.
Of course, there are also some exceptions. Some people may not be completely out of sync with the trend, but have been ignored by them, focusing solely on their work and family. For their wives, they always believe that as long as they work hard to earn money for her, they can ignore whether they are trendy or not, unaware of the serious consequences caused by this.
Imagine if your wife is a full-time wife who doesn't have much else to do except to revolve around you every day, but you still wear a set of work clothes every day. Even when you go to work and work, you can accompany her to see friends or her family, all of which are your tireless work clothes. Or you can blame her for wasting money when she buys you fashionable gifts, clothes, shoes, and socks. Think of her facing family, Or when a friend is discussing behind their back, what kind of mood will it be? Over time, it is inevitable that she will feel bored in life and have a desire to dislike you.
This may be difficult for many people to understand. You are clearly trying to save money and live like this, but as a result, she still has the intention of betraying you, which is difficult to accept at the moment. However, from a different perspective, if you go home every day and see your wife wearing the same clothes every day, and every time you go out with her, they are also the same set of clothes, what would you think? Women also need face. They don't marry a cash machine, nor are they solely focused on money. If they are in front of friends and family, they also hope that their men can be trendy and humorous, and not be so rigid and old-fashioned.
So those men whose thoughts are still stuck in the past, or who are completely focused on their work, or who always want to save more money, may as well let go of that little discomfort and take some time to learn more about the new trends in society, integrate themselves into society, and sometimes treat themselves better. Don't prioritize money over anything else. Men should also learn to dress up and follow the trend, so as not to appear backward, If you are shining brightly every day, speaking elegantly without losing your humor, your wife or girlfriend, even if they are keeping you busy, how can they have the heart and time to deal with others.
