Post Date April, 15 2023
When pursuing their beloved partner, many young lovers don't know how to pick up a girl. They just blindly express their love for their beloved partner. However, if there is something wrong, they even take pains, and they can't afford to go to the sword or the fire for each other. It's just that this way of picking up girls often has little effect. Why did you fail?
She doesn't feel good about you anymore
Everyone has a certain degree of adaptability to the environment to maintain physical and mental stability, including emotional, psychological, vital signs, and so on. It's like a person suddenly walking from a dark place to a bright place, and at that moment they will lose sight and see nothing, but after a while, they will be able to see again. It's not that the outside light has dimmed, but that your eyes have adapted to the current environment. Similarly, both smell and hearing have this characteristic. In fact, human emotions also exist. When you treat a girl well and do something moving, her heart beats faster and she feels grateful. But when you do something that moves her every day, and her heart beats faster every day, isn't that going to be heart attack sooner or later?
Every detail, she doesn't feel fresh
When you treat her well every day, treat her meticulously, care for her doubly, tolerate her meticulously, and obey her obediently, the result can only be to adapt the girl to your kindness to her, and then you can't do anything else to make her heart beat faster. So a girl will feel like living with you is a hell of a life without any excitement or novelty. Everything is so boring. And your tolerance and indulgence, in her opinion, are just evidence of your cowardice and cowardice. In this case, when she encounters other people who are good to her, she feels suddenly stimulated. If that person has some skills and your girlfriend doesn't have much integrity, then she shouldn't run away with other men? You shouldn't be the spare tire. Who should be the spare tire. This situation often occurs in boys' first love.
The Way to Get Along with Men and Women is a University Question
Don't believe it? Casually ask the man with a green hat next to him if seven or eight out of ten are spoiled by their girlfriend, and then apply the above method for analysis to see where you can go wrong. (However, it would be foolish of you to believe it all. After all, women are unreasonable animals, and sometimes she won't eat your tricks.)
In fact, the way to get along is a great learning in itself, and it is not something that can be clearly explained in a single sentence or two. I can only think of what to say, and I don't have a systematic thing in mind.
How do trainers make bad dolphins obedient?
Now let's tell you a story about the bad dolphins. Dolphins are very clever but very bad, and still don't obey after eating the fish given by the trainer. Later, the trainer came up with a way to give dolphins a whole bucket of fish at once, but after a full meal, they didn't even give it anymore. The flustered dolphin sensed a 180 degree change in the trainer and began to do everything possible to please the trainer. Gradually, it found that when it correctly performed the actions required by the trainer, the trainer would reward it with a fish. After repeated actions, the original bad dolphin became a good dolphin.
What does this story tell us? Fish is equivalent to the benefits we give to girls. If you give them fish unconditionally, in the end, they won't listen to you. So even if it's for fish, it's necessary to use a certain method. If you want girls to listen to you and tense you, the most crucial step is to mobilize their imagination. When we use flattering strategies to please girls, timely withdrawal and departure can have the effect of turning retreat into progress.
Picking up girls takes advantage of women's animal instincts
During this period of time, you can calm your head and not be overwhelmed by emotions. At this point, girls often begin to feel uneasy, and those with a "protein" personality will start to fantasize. Does he dislike me? Did I do something wrong there? Did he fall in love with someone else? So should I treat him better? Why do I miss him when he doesn't appear? Am I in love with him? Once she has a concern for you, your status in her heart rises, and you are one step closer to truly entering her inner depths.
Some people may say that animals are animals and people are people, which are completely different things. Let me tell you, before becoming Empress Wu Zetian, she was an expert at horse training. The reason why she was able to dominate the world was that she used the horse training method to train people, which had a very good effect. In fact, many times, like animals, humans have animal instincts that cannot be erased.
