Post Date December, 02 2023
Love is diverse, and we should not and cannot predetermine it. It may be cruel and always shatters stubborn arrogance, but when we look to reality, we will still find that we can work hard for love to have a beautiful ending. Just like our dreams, we cannot guarantee that they will come true, but in the process of pursuing our dreams, we can put in twice as much effort to achieve this wish. Therefore, even when it comes to saving love, we should take it step by step. Firstly, we should not act blindly. Many people do not understand why we should not be blind before saving love? Now let me tell you why the first step in saving love is not to be blind.
Blindly following the trend can make it difficult for you to find the most suitable way to recover. When solving a problem, we must definitely choose one or several methods. However, if you blindly choose a method that is not suitable for you, not only cannot you save success, but it can also easily lead to worse situations. At that time, if you cannot save love, a hard slap on your face is not enough to relieve your hatred. Nowadays, the research field of people is becoming more and more extensive, and a considerable number of people are studying love, marriage psychology, life experience, love theory... These seem to give advice to love. Countless successful cases of saving love make you so tempted that you can't wait to use someone else's way of saving it. What about the results? Is it a surprise that you sent her red roses to lie in the hospital with pollen allergies? This is a shock! So, don't be like a "follow the trend dog". If you see that someone else's method is effective, you will indiscriminately apply it, and your intelligence will be mistaken by your intelligence. Remember, to save love, you should avoid being blind.
Blindly optimistic will make the other party lose sight of your attitude towards saving love. Women's thoughts cannot be understood by men, but sometimes women also know this, so they are willing to understand men. Therefore, the process of redemption does not necessarily need to be spectacular or romantic, and the key lies in whether your attitude is sincere. You think you should show a good image, so you casually told her to come back, but she felt that you were too light and insincere, as if you didn't care about her so much. In this way, she wanted to make things difficult for you and not let you successfully retrieve her.
Blindly pessimistic is not easy to cheer you up and save love. Besides not being blindly optimistic, don't be blindly pessimistic, because when you are completely immersed in the ocean of sadness and unable to extricate yourself, your bitterness will drown her out. How could she be willing to spend the rest of her life with a depressed person? Feeling too low can actually trap you in the shadow of a broken relationship and prevent you from getting out, which is not conducive to saving love and causing a sense of decadence
