Post Date December, 02 2023
As is well known, liking beautiful women is a man's nature. If a married woman truly believes a man's words and thinks that they will no longer care about your appearance, then she is truly wrong to be unkempt. Because among them, only the man's "ugly wife" mentality is causing trouble.
Many married women may have this feeling: no matter how beautiful you are before getting married, it's rare to hear your husband's praise again after marriage. He will praise you for being virtuous, but he rarely praises you for being beautiful. Not only that, but he may even hit you: don't be so flashy all day, a mature woman should dress generously and appropriately.
I remember a book that said: Women before the age of thirty have their looks given by their parents, and women after the age of thirty have their looks raised. 'Internal cultivation' refers to temperament and connotation, while 'external cultivation' refers to external beauty. Reasonably, "internal nourishment" and "external nourishment" should be combined, not to mention that natural beauty will also be difficult to withstand the storms of time. But why do married men not like their wives spending a lot of energy on external beauty? Is it true that as they say, 'Even if you are no longer beautiful, I will not despise you'
As is well known, liking beautiful women is a man's nature. If a married woman truly believes a man's words and thinks that they will no longer care about your appearance, then she is truly wrong to be unkempt. Because among them, only the man's "ugly wife" mentality is causing trouble.
The saying 'having an ugly wife at home is a treasure' is already deeply ingrained among married men. A man before marriage is like a hunter, always hoping to catch the best prey to satisfy his vanity. But once he brings this prey home, he will feel a sense of crisis and try to conceal its radiance in order to seek a calm and blissful life.
Because of this, men always criticize women's tireless spending on cosmetics, clothing, and shoes. In the eyes of men, a married wife who cannot calm down and educate her husband and children, and who pays too much attention to dress, ultimately does not meet the standards of a virtuous wife and mother.
A female classmate once complained to me that her husband always seemed to dislike her. If she dressed too youthful and fashionable, he would mock her for pretending to be pure. At first, she thought she was really not very mature and tried to focus on professional suits in her clothing. In fact, her outfits were far less attractive than her fashion. It wasn't until one day that she saw a colleague's wife in her husband's workplace attending a party with deep boots and a short skirt, a long and slanted bag, that she realized that women in their forties could also wear it this way and look very young, while she was just over thirty years old. She grabbed her husband's ear and asked, but he had to truthfully tell her: I'm afraid you're too beautiful, which makes me feel stressed.
Therefore, it can also be said that a man's "ugly wife" mentality is actually aimed at relieving himself. But a woman who leaves a man without any pressure will only make him gradually tired and lose the motivation for love. Dare to challenge a man's "ugly wife" mentality, only then will he dare not slack off and increase the chips to love you for a moment.
