Post Date December, 03 2023
Friends who have been to the United States may find that there are few men carrying bags for their wives in the United States. Unless the woman goes to the toilet or goes to other places for temporary care. In China, this situation is quite common and is often considered as the performance of husband's love for his wife. But why don't American men carry bags for women. Experts talk about why American men don't carry bags for women.
In the United States, carrying bags is often regarded as a trivial matter by women, while in China, women often make a fuss when their husbands are unwilling to carry their bags because it perfectly reflects the essence of "feminism" in both countries. American feminism emphasizes that women are as capable as men, and what women can do will not be done by men. Based on the understanding of ability equality, they can demand political equality, strive for women's voting rights and equal pay for equal work.
It is not allowed to let your boyfriend/husband do such things as carrying bags. The bag is so heavy, can't you carry it? no In this case, face is bigger than inside. It is to hold yourself up, seek a pleasure of conquering men, and let people around you see that men listen to them.
In the United States, this approach does not work because it is a denial of one's own ability and an insult to the man. Don't you scold a big man when you let him carry a small Kun bag? Most men feel very embarrassed when they hold a small bag in public. Is it good to spoil the people around you? What kind of person do you think you are? This kind of practice dwarfs the other party as well as yourself, and both sides are hurt.
Women don't let men carry their own things. However, women can't do anything. They do work hard. For example, they go up and down stairs to hold the baby, push the baby carriage, pull the door and push the door (American doors are usually heavy), but they see that men do not give up. This is the reasonable way to do it. Anyway, carry it by yourself. If you don't carry a bag, how can you carry it clearly?
