Post Date December, 03 2023
Hello teacher. I am in great pain now. Married for seven years, with a child of five years old, but her husband found another woman as unmarried. I feel like he never loved me. Divorce may not be good for children, but I am also very hurt. What should I do? It has been six months since I discovered it, which was discovered through photos and some shopping receipts. After discovering it, he said he would handle it well, but he still maintained it behind the scenes. Now his attitude has become indifferent and he doesn't even face the problem directly.
Ms. Qiu:
My husband has been married to you for 7 years, and I don't feel his love for you on weekdays. If he goes out to find another woman, it first indicates that your relationship has already gone wrong, and marital dissatisfaction has led him to turn his focus to extramarital matters. A man who is dissatisfied with his marriage and engages in infidelity only indicates that his marriage has gone wrong and he is unfaithful to his relationship. But if a man gets married and goes to another woman as an unmarried person, it indicates that there is a problem with their character and he has not expressed his attitude towards divorce, then he is purely deceiving other women's emotions or bodies.
The question you need to consider now is whether he repents, and if he repents, how will you face this lukewarm marriage. If there is a problem with this man's character, will his responsibility to the family also be affected? If he doesn't have the heart to change, you can't change his character. Knowing this, whether you are still willing to make do with it depends on how you choose. If you give yourself the opportunity to choose again, the possibility of finding happiness again in the future depends on whether you have the courage.
