Post Date December, 03 2023
At the costume party on Ghost Day that year, everyone was discussing what to look like and what kind of clothes to wear. A girl said that she wore a white wedding dress, which was the best way to scare her boyfriend to death. He didn't want to get married and wouldn't make easy promises. The other said he wanted to frighten her cohabiting boyfriend, probably by putting a pillow in his clothes like he was pregnant, which was enough to scare him to the core. Another said that her boyfriend sees movies with wedding scenes as horror movies.
Many modern young people suffer from marital phobia, refuse to marry, and view marriage as a fear. They care about their own careers, know how to seek happiness, and don't want to find trouble. Anything that can cause trouble for them, they all hide away. The relationship with a girlfriend is only willing to stay at the "just friend" stage, unwilling to be involved in too much involvement, and always wants to leave.
The world is too changeable, and young people no longer believe in everlasting and unchanging love. They are not fully sure whether the feelings in front of them are true or not. The theme song of the series sang loudly, "Love, what is it?"
A young man finally got the idea of getting married. Before getting married, he asked himself a few questions, and the answer turned out to be all negative, including if he met someone more adorable again, would he be unmoved? Can you imagine him 30 years later, still loving someone like this? Are you interested in taking full responsibility for someone who will become ugly, old, fat, sick, or dead? Have the patience to spend this ordinary day with him? Would you like to share a bathroom and open a bank account with him?
I can't give a reason why I want to get married. Previously, the so-called "get on the car first, then pay for the ticket" was called a scandal. Nowadays, it seems that the pregnancy of a girlfriend has not become a necessary reason for marriage. Many female stars have made statements about wanting to be unmarried mothers, saying that as long as the children seem to be able to obtain some kind of praise, they don't have to be poor suffering heroes. Their concepts are blurred and vaguely seem to be responsible and responsible A leader of independent new ideological trends.
When women are financially independent, they can't understand the need for marriage. With a high paying job and living in your own house, find a man to dirty the beautifully decorated home.
Perhaps too many examples of failed marriages have frightened young people and left them with many sequelae. They no longer believe that the prince and princess will live a happy life from now on. The statistics in the newspaper say that married people live longer than unmarried people, and they cannot mention their interest. They also ridicule it as not living long, but living a sad life and feeling longer.
Some men have always wondered whether the marriage system is a woman's trick? To increase men's responsibilities and reduce their rights, there is a saying in English that "she has won a husband", and the husband has "won". It can be seen that marriage, like gambling, has its winners and losers. Some people also compare marriage to a buffet, where you pick up what you like first, but you have to pay for it later. A successful marriage requires the efforts of two people, and if you want to fail, one person can do it.
"I don't know when there have been many arguments against marriage, saying, 'When considering marriage, one should be old enough to understand why one shouldn't get married.'" He added, 'Single people may have done more wrong than married people, but at least they haven't done the biggest thing wrong.' He also said, 'Being single is a rolling stone without moss.' They intentionally changed the English MOSS to at least have no BOSS. ". Girls also believe that once married, it is tantamount to giving up everyone's attention to her, and in exchange for someone who no longer pays attention to how she dresses, it is not worth it.
Among the waves of rejection of marriage, the most worried are parents who dare not say one more word.
