Post Date December, 03 2023
Every person who has a bumpy relationship has had this exclamation: True love is so hard to find! Past failed emotional experiences can sometimes make you feel discouraged and feel like a scumbag attraction and a versatile tool maker. But sometimes I feel that there will always be someone who truly loves me in such a big world, right? So I renewed my hope of finding a soul mate and having a serious relationship with myself.
But true love is really hard to find! Or is it true that true love is deceitful, and there is no such thing as the right person in the world?
Whether you believe in the concept of the right person or not, we should not deny that love is not perfect, but it is still beautiful and worth pursuing. If you are discouraged, it is because of past sadness and bad emotional experiences that have automatically built a wall inside you, preventing you from trusting someone so quickly, creating a feeling that you won't get hurt if you don't start.
But should we stay single all our lives because of those rotten people who have hurt us? It's not worth considering! Only by knocking over a boat of people with one stroke can we truly hinder ourselves from finding happiness. So, cheer up and see what you can do to quickly and ruthlessly find the right person in your life!
The first step is to clarify what kind of person you are looking for
It's like driving to a strange place. You need a map to guide you.
A compatible soul mate is like a strange field to you. You don't know what he looks like, what his personality is, and what his interests are. So you need to think clearly about the conditions of your soul mate. If you don't know what you want, it's not surprising that love ends in failure.
May I ask myself first, what qualities are most important to me?
Honesty? good? Smart? Upward progress? Considerate and gentle?
In short, start by clarifying your thoughts.
Step 2: Once you find someone who meets the criteria for your soul mate, be honest
In relationships, it is difficult to reveal past scars to the other party, and it is inevitable to be afraid that these scars will be too ferocious and scare the other party away.
For example, in your last relationship, you were ripped off. Even if you don't want to mention that painful memory again, you still need to make it clear to your current partner that you have been deeply hurt before, so that your partner will realize that a sense of security and absolute loyalty are very important in your relationship.
Honesty also means not pretending. The disguise is very painful, and sooner or later, it will reveal its true form. Bi Fang Mingming's appetite is comparable to that of Yosuka Kiyoshita, but every time he takes three bites on a date, he says he's full; Mingming is a girl who ignores her image and puts on a dignified and ladylike attitude in front of him. The sooner you let the other person know your true side, the longer it will take them to adapt to your sense of contrast.
"If you want to go a long way, the most important thing is to be honest, and to be honest from the beginning.".
The most beautiful moment at a wedding ceremony is when the groom and bride exchange rings. "The moment when the groom takes the wedding oath and the bride says I will, the happiest people in the world should be on this occasion.".
For foreigners, they are always amazed at why many couples take off the ring on their fingers after getting married. There are many reasons for taking the ring off: for example, the working environment is not suitable for wearing jewelry on your fingers, or some people are simply not accustomed to having things on their fingers.
In fact, wedding rings have an importance that many people have never noticed. Don't underestimate the small ring on your finger. It is definitely more meaningful than you think.
Romance and commitment
The moment you put on the ring, it is to announce your commitment to this marriage and your loyalty to your partner.
A wedding ring is a way to affirm each other's values. Whether it's a ring worth 1000 yuan selected from a small jewelry store, or a ring worth several hundred thousand yuan from a high-end boutique brand, as long as you wear it, it represents a choice you believe another person has made.
When you see the ring on your hand, it reminds you of all your commitments to your partner and reminds you that every decision and choice you make now will affect the other person. Think twice before you act.
"The ring is also a symbol of love and romance between both parties, demonstrating the emotional connection between them and also representing mutual respect between them.".
The ring on the hand is the object that can best let children understand the meaning of love and marriage.
When there is disagreement between a husband and wife, a wedding ring can be the first line of defense to protect your marriage. Seeing the ring will remind both parties of what they have done for each other, their vows, and most importantly, remember how much you loved each other on the day of marriage.
