Post Date December, 02 2023
Marriage is originally a great joy, but in some ways it is a "torture" for the groom and his family. So many men are afraid of marriage. Men seem to be afraid of nothing, so why are they afraid of marriage? Let's take a look together:
Why do men flinch from marriage
In front of the cruel reality, many men and women stop outside marriage and dare not step into marriage, for fear that entering the besieged city will ruin their years of sweet love and their happiness. When you are in love, you are only faced with the pure love of two people, and marriage is simply a "game" between two families.
From the decoration of the new house, to the preparation of the wedding, to the wedding ceremony, many aspects are undertaken by the man. If you are lucky to meet a nice woman's family, you will suffer if you meet a picky one.
Just married, men tend to have resistance. This is not childish and irresponsible, but a normal inner impulse. Many families, especially in China, once a man is in his twenties, his family begins to urge him to marry. This is the beginning of forming a fear of marriage for men, because they feel that their ideas about marriage are not mature yet, but they are urged by their parents to make themselves more resistant to marriage under pressure.
In some marriage relationships, many feelings of young men begin to go downhill on the day of marriage. They will be nervous, anxious and at a loss, so they want to escape from reality. Originally, stepping into marriage from reality would make people feel at a loss to a certain extent, while the family and friends around him would make a vague concept or explanation of his inner thoughts, which would make him feel nameless guilt and fear.
The above is about men's fear of marriage. I hope it can help you. Men should overcome this mentality. Don't let the psychological fear that started before and after marriage affect the feelings of both parties.
