Post Date December, 03 2023
As the saying goes, "It is easy to fall in love but difficult to stay together", so with the seven-year itch, marriage becomes the tomb of love. We can always have disputes over too many trivial matters, small holes become big holes, differences become enmities, and finally we can split up and cry.
The marital discord between husband and wife can often show many symptoms. A thousand couples can have ten thousand excuses for marital discord. For example, he doesn't love me enough, they are not compatible, she likes to nag, and he has no sense of responsibility to look for women outside, and so on.
So, what is the real culprit that leads to marital discord?
1. Mismatch between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law
We have always wanted to know the proportion of the disharmony between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in marriage. I believe this figure is quite surprising. When the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law disagree, the problem arises.
On the one hand, the daughter-in-law "bullied" her husband with the mentality of "carving a gem", but not in the eyes of her mother-in-law. So the two sides fought for the man; On the other hand, any grievance between the wife and the wife will fall to the man. The smallest problem may also become a big problem. The man will lose his immunity and patience after a long time, and will eventually break out one day.
2. Children don't obey
According to observation, in many families with happy marriages, children are a necessary factor. Children are the hope of a family. As long as children do not obey, all kinds of entanglements and contradictions will come.
3. My husband can't make money
Speaking of this, I have to scold the house price with indignation, and most of the contradictions come from it.
Women think that men can't make money, men have words of suffering, it is said that poor couples are sad, men are inferiority complex, women complain about horizontal comparison of love, no matter how good the emotional foundation is, it can not withstand much turbulence.
4. Wife is always good for others
Men are fast food animals. When two people are together every day, they will become numb if they are too tired. They will turn a blind eye to their beautiful and sexy wives. After all, they think others' wives are better if they have more advantages.
This is the root of men's bad nature. It is not men's fault, but in today's troubled society.
5. Discordant sexual life
More than 80% of marital discord is more or less related to the disharmony of sexual life between husband and wife. However, this matter is also the easiest to let people keep in mind. No one will say it, and many times even the other party does not know it.
