Post Date April, 15 2023
In daily life or on the screen, we often see many men who go out for social gatherings and invite some "female comrades" to accompany them. If it's going out for a meal or a cocktail party, they will bring their wife or girlfriend with them, and they must bring a woman with them anyway. Women are like essential social items for men, serving as companions. The rest may not seem to play a significant role, but they are indispensable. Don't think that women cannot play a significant role in men's social interactions. The role played by women is very important and should not be underestimated. Let's see why men cannot do without women when socializing.
1. Men need listeners
Men have a strong desire for control in their hearts, and they are good at using interruptions to express their desire for control and domination. So, in many social interactions, you can see that men are more likely to interrupt than women, reflecting their stronger desire for control. In interpersonal interactions, no one really likes someone who likes to interrupt, most people prefer having a listener. In social interactions, the other party is also a person with a desire for control and dominance. If two dominant men come together, it is Mars colliding with Earth and will not achieve good results.
When listening to the other person's lengthy reasoning, men often cannot bear to interrupt and interrupt to express their opinions. Women often force themselves to patiently wait for the other person's words to come to an end before expressing their thoughts. At this time, a woman who knows how to hide her inner desire for control within the scope of "politeness" can always win more favor from the other party.
2. Active atmosphere
Entertainment places great emphasis on atmosphere, and if the atmosphere is not good, many big businesses are difficult to negotiate. Generally speaking, the most effective way for men to use an active atmosphere is to make everyone drink, which can cause headaches. But women are different. Women are born with active atmosphere cells. Singing a song or dancing can make the atmosphere at the negotiation table much more lively. Whether on screen or in daily life, many men call on female friends as their female companions when going out for socializing. If you have a girlfriend and wife, bring them along. If you don't have one, find a friend or colleague, and always bring a girlfriend.
With women around and an active atmosphere, conversations between men don't sound so tiring. A smart woman usually speaks and listens, knowing when to listen and when to speak. This greatly satisfies the dominant and controlling desires of the negotiating party, allowing them to feel their leadership position, and their activity makes the social occasions full of laughter and laughter, without any silences.
