Ogawa is a nostalgic person who retains too many items and memories from the past. After marriage, Xiaochuan always likes to take out the love letters written by boys and the diaries she wrote back then. She believes that these are her own secrets, and sometimes taking them out to revisit them can also be considered a memory of the past.
One day, careless Ogawa forgot to tidy up the diary he flipped through. The memories buried inside were all "captured" by the husband, and he suspected that Ogawa had a lingering suspicion of the past. No matter how Ogawa explained it, the husband still harbored resentment. Afterwards, no matter what he does, his husband always likes to delve into the details. When she got home late, her husband suspected that she was fooling around with other men outside, and there was an opposition in her thoughts. He thought she deliberately targeted herself.
Faced with her husband's suspicion, Ogawa felt extremely disgusted and felt that her life was completely trapped in her husband's suspicion and explanation. Later, Ogawa learned in a family book that men's hypochondria was closely related to a lack of self-confidence, so he tried to take the initiative to praise his husband. After a period of time, the husband of Ogawa did indeed undergo significant changes. Not only did he not overly care about Ogawa's private space, but he became more considerate.
The reason why men are suspicious is because they lack confidence in themselves
Many men, after learning about women's little 'secrets', are not necessarily worried that women will have a relapse into old relationships. Their suspicion is often related to men's lack of confidence. When they learn that women miss the past, they inevitably think that you feel that the current person is not good enough, think that you are comparing him with your past lover, and worry that your feelings for him will gradually fade in this comparison.
Women's past can interfere with their interpretation of love like ghosts, making them restless in sleep and food. So they began to care too much about their wife's every move, firmly controlling all her actions because they were afraid of losing you.
Be sure to praise men who are suspicious and seriously ill more
In marriage, men can play multiple roles, sometimes as husbands, sometimes as sons, and sometimes as lovers. Men, like women, also need the attention of each other. What women really need to do is to find a chance to reiterate your love for them and not make them doubt themselves.
Psychologists believe that the more severely suspicious a man is, the more he feels incomplete in certain aspects and develops extreme lack of confidence. Proper praise is the best way to encourage your partner. Because men often act like children without confidence and security in love, they need women to encourage them like mothers, telling them that no one can share your love for them. So when he doubts your love, try praising his strengths.
(Intern Editor: Lai Jiaxing)