Post Date December, 03 2023
Many women have entered the palace of marriage with beautiful fantasies. However, after marriage, one after another triviality has long since wiped out his original fantasy of love. Before marriage, you wait for him to coax you, but after marriage, you have to tolerate him in every way. Why are married women afraid of their husbands having an affair?
First of all, women are often not independent and dependent on men.
Many women are not financially independent, and their basic living expenses are provided by men. Under such circumstances, men become her spiritual support. Once a man has an affair, he will spend his money on others.
At this time, all her fears and worries will appear, and she will feel that the sky is falling. Under such circumstances, he will keep a man's pocket tight. The reason is that she has a strong attachment to men. She absolutely does not allow her survival pillar to be taken away by others without reason. Therefore, this kind of woman is particularly afraid of her husband having an affair.
Secondly, women are influenced by traditional ideas.
Many women are influenced by the traditional concept that marriage is a lifetime. In this life, even if a man treats himself badly, he should endure it to avoid being laughed at by others after divorce.
Under such circumstances, they are more afraid of the betrayal of men and the cheating of their husbands, because that would be a lifelong shame for her, but they still have to go with this shame. Therefore, because of this thought, they often live in the world of men all their lives.
Thirdly, women will feel inferior because of this.
Women are the strangest animals. They always live in their own world. If they are with others, their husbands are often the ones who like to discuss. If your husband has money, you can talk about money. If your husband has a car, you can talk about it and show off your wealth.
If your husband has love, you can also show your love. But if their husband has an affair, everything about him seems to have nothing to do with them. This deep blow makes them extremely inferiority complex. Under such circumstances, they will be shut down because of their inferiority complex, and their sense of happiness will disappear.
Finally, after marriage, my husband is all I have.
Many women tend to have a very small social circle, so small that after marriage, they only have their husband, no relatives, no friends. Therefore, my husband has become the most precious treasure of his life.
When her husband is all she has after marriage, she can't accept the harm that her husband's affair brings to her. She thinks this is a complete negation of her life. Therefore, she cannot understand and accept the reality. Therefore, under such circumstances, women can't face their feelings frankly. If her husband has an affair, it will be difficult for her to find a strong reason again.
Women often experience great changes in their character after marriage. Some women have become more and more exquisite and more able to please men after being polished by worldly affairs. There are also some women who have been baptized by marriage and often understand that it is better to please anyone than to please themselves, and instead make life easier.
