Post Date December, 02 2023
1、 Women's cheating is more likely to break up than men's cheating
Men can separate sex and love. Many men just cheat physically and mentally. They just play with women outside. They will choose to go home when they have enough. After a man's infidelity, his wife and lover are clearly separated. Many men can still do their best to their wife and family. "The colored flags are flying outside, but the red flags are not falling at home", even the wife can't find it.
Women are different. Most women's sex and love are tied together. Once a woman's body is unfaithful, her heart will go out, and she will gradually dislike the men at home, and then she will have the idea of divorce and being with her lover. Some people will not want to get intimate with their husbands, and their sexual life will become more and more disharmonious. Men regard reputation as more important than marriage. Once a woman's infidelity is discovered by a man, it is "wearing a green hat". It is hard for a man to forgive. Divorce is also inevitable after a woman's infidelity. Men who do not want to divorce for various reasons will also use double cheating to revenge women to achieve balance, making women pay a great price mentally.
2、 Women cheat more than men
Compared with men, women are at a disadvantage. The risk of women cheating mainly comes from the risk of disease attack, husband violence, blackmail and entanglement by scum men. I have a female counselor who found out that she wanted to break up when she met someone bad after cheating, but she was forced to break up after being threatened by the other party with indecent photos. There was also a female counselor who had an affair with a sexually transmitted disease patient and regretted it.
3、 Women are blamed more for cheating than men
The society has different tolerance for men and women who cheat. Men's cheating is regarded as forgivable, while women's cheating is regarded as unforgivable. This unreasonable culture makes women's cheating more condemned than men's cheating. The condemnation comes from both the outside and the inside.
The outside will be pointed out, regarded as a bad woman, and remarriage will be affected. Internally, it mainly comes from the internal moral judgment. Women will doubt whether they are really wrong or not, and then fall into the moral anxiety of being sorry for men, children and relatives, the fear of marriage insecurity, and the inner restlessness.
4、 It is more difficult for an unfaithful woman to remarry than an unfaithful man
If the marriage is not guaranteed, it is easier for a man to enter the next marriage than for a woman. I wrote a special topic in my own article. Because our marriage culture is that men are older and women are younger, divorced men and women at the age of 40 can find unmarried girls who are younger than their own age after remarriage.
A 40-year-old woman who remarries can only find those who are older than herself. They can only find those who are widowed or divorced. The candidate team is very small. If you are lucky to meet an unmarried person who is younger than yourself or of the same age, let alone whether there is a problem, it is certain that it is difficult to be valued by others.
In addition, men and women who are divorced because of cheating are more likely to be forgiven by their new girlfriend. The new girlfriend will think that a man's cheating is because his wife is not good, but women are difficult to be accepted by the new boyfriend. The new boyfriend will worry about whether the woman who has been cheating will give her a green hat after marriage.
