Who knows a man's heart

Who understands a man's heart, who knows a man's pain, who understands a man's tiredness, and who embraces a man's love

Many years ago, the famous film and television star Liu Xiaoqing's sentence "It's difficult to be a woman, but it's even more difficult to be a woman!" has aroused deep reflection and resonance among many people. Today, as an ordinary woman, I want to say here: "Actually, being a man is really not easy." How many people have seen men cry? How many people understand the sadness of men? A man's mouth says it doesn't matter, but in fact, many times it's his kind hypocrisy. In this world, no matter how strong a man is, he will also be vulnerable and tired, and no matter how optimistic a man is, there must be pain and bitter tears in his heart.

Men have been branded as "men" since the day they were born, and have been constantly infused with "heroism". All aspects of society and the times promote and require men to be confident, strong, and indomitable. Therefore, men are often compared to mountains, seas, pillars, safe havens, and so on.

From ancient times to the present, men have always played the role of strong men, whether they are kings, generals, or ordinary people. Too many responsibilities need to be shouldered by men, and too much pressure needs to be borne by men. The competition of life and the needs of the family do not allow men to retreat, nor do they allow men to say they are tired or regret.

"A man should strengthen himself" has forced many men to wear a "tight hoop curse". No matter when and where, in good times or bad times, they can only choose to stand on their own feet, strengthen themselves, and overcome difficulties. No matter how hard it is, they can continue. "A man cannot shed tears lightly." How many men bear inexplicable pressure because of this sentence, many men can only choose to grievance themselves, even if they bleed without shedding tears, even if their front teeth are knocked off, they will only swallow blood into their stomachs. When they are tired and in pain, they can only curl up quietly in a dark corner that no one knows, listening to sad songs, smoking lonely cigarettes, using strong alcohol to anesthetize themselves, hoping that a drunk can solve a thousand worries.

The phrase "Men have gold under their knees" has forced many men to choose to die standing rather than kneeling down in the face of great difficulties and disasters at the critical juncture of life and death. Man, it's really not easy! Failure or failure to achieve success in a career can be considered unproductive, and behavior that is not manly enough can be described as "sissy.". Take care of your business. Some people say he has no sense of responsibility. Visit your family. Some people say he is cowardly and incompetent.

Admittedly, an ideal man and a successful man should be modest, upright, courageous, well-established, and proud in the Jianghu all his life. However, not all men in the world can do so. We should understand that not every man can be graceful and proud. In the world of mortals, which man doesn't want to draw shining exclamation marks on the journey of life? Unfortunately, some men are unlucky and unlucky, and even if they have worked hard and persevered, it is difficult to reach their ideal destination and achieve victory.

Who understands a man's heart? Who knows that men suffer? In fact, many men can accept failure in their careers and material poverty, but they often cannot tolerate spiritual desolation. Men are also human beings, and men are not gods. Men, with blood and flesh; Men have emotions and tears. A man does not shed tears because he has not reached the point of sorrow or the depth of love. A man's tears do not represent his weakness or incompetence. A man's tears are a manifestation of true feelings and an expression of emotions.

Perhaps the day does not understand the darkness of night, women, in fact, men are really not easy, if you are merciful, if you understand, please do not let the men around you feel too tired! Please do not add to the burden of men! When a man is fragile, please give him encouragement and support, and strive to help him hold up a rainy day; When a man is helpless, please tell him, "At least you still have me!" When a man is tired, please let him relax and give him a place to rest.

When a man is injured, please comfort him and let him have a warm harbor; When a man cries, please don't laugh at his incompetence. Please give him a shoulder to cry happily. Finally, remember to help him wipe his tears. When a man fails, please don't hurt his self-esteem any more. Please give him a smile and tenderness to regain his confidence and tell him that maybe everything can be done again.

"A man doesn't flick his tears lightly, but he hasn't reached the point of sorrow."

In today's era, with fierce competition, it's really not easy to be a man. Therefore, we women should be less complaining and blaming men, and more understanding and tolerance; Less ridicule and derogation, more care and consideration. Female compatriots, please remember! Who knows the heart of a man, who knows the bitterness of a man, who understands the tiredness of a man, who will receive the treasure of a man, and who will possess the love and affection of a man---- Stop being hard on men! Stop embarrassing men! Actually, being a man is really not easy.