1. Men without male chauvinism
This is the first thing. A man with a good wife must have the idea and consciousness of equality between men and women in his bones, so that he can really treat his wife well, respect his wife from the bottom of his heart, and not regard his wife as his own appendage or as a tool for childbearing, so that he can reflect a man's real demeanor in his daily life. A man with male chauvinism may look good on the surface, but he will make his wife vomit blood at the critical moment, and this kind of male chauvinism in the bone cannot be fundamentally changed. Being his wife is doomed to suffer a lifetime of injustice.
2. A man who is loyal to his marriage
The most disturbing thing for a man's wife is the man's lechery. No matter how handsome he is, how high his education is, how developed his career is, and how fast he makes money, if he is unfaithful to his wife and is outsourcing his mistress to raise his lover, this is the most merciless humiliation to his wife. There is a disloyal husband in the family. Women are doomed to have no happiness.
3. A man who is steadfast in his work and career
Where is the root of man? Of course, it is a career. Can a man who has no job or career still be a man? Of course, the work career mentioned here is not necessarily the so-called lofty or brilliant great career. It is good to be able to work steadfastly and conscientiously. But a street or online bully who has nothing to do all day, or lives on the property left by his grandparents, you can't really rely on him, either poor or angry. A man who has no prospects is the most despised.
4. Men who do not smoke, drink or exercise
As a man, of course, he should have a healthy body and healthy hobbies. His taste should not be too vulgar. Smoking and drinking, indulging in wine tables, gambling tables or romantic places, not reading books, not having healthy hobbies, not loving sports, and not in good health, so a man can only make his wife worry. If a man suffers himself, his wife is bound to suffer as well.
5. A man who is broad-minded and caring for his wife
Of course, men should be broad-minded. They always have trouble with their wives. With more wives, why should the family be too serious? "The wife is always right" may be a bit exaggerated, but it should be like this on the whole. It is not a principled matter of right and wrong. Men need not always compete with their wives for win or lose or discuss the high and low. Be more considerate and caring for your wife. A man who is narrow-minded and does not know how to care for his wife will never be a man with a prosperous wife.
(Intern editor: Cai Junyi)