No one doesn't want their partner to be the perfect lover with a beautiful appearance and excellent inner qualities. Unfortunately, life is always so unhappy that when you get one thing, you have to give up another. Whether men or women, there are always some shortcomings. People with high education and intelligence may not be very handsome, while people with tall statures may not have the best financial income... Faced with these shortcomings, married people cannot choose to give up, so they have to avoid. Some women discover a certain flaw in their husbands, which contrasts greatly with their perfect image before marriage. They repose this emotion on a man who can make up for this flaw, which is one of the reasons for extramarital affairs. Men need to carefully observe and see where a woman's infidelity manifests itself, in order to save their marriage, save their wife's heart from the infidelity, or prevent it from happening before it happens.
Dress carefully.
In this age of facial control, women have become more and more concerned about their appearance. However, if the wife who is willing to be a "yellow faced woman" suddenly starts dressing up seriously, you should not feel that she is following the pace of the times without being suspicious. Perhaps she is "looking like a woman who pleases herself"! A woman who has an affair is like secretly dating. If she looks untidy, how can she be ashamed to meet her lover? It is precisely because an affair can bring her the feeling of love that she has regained her girlish heart and become fond of beauty.
Start hiding.
In the past, when calling or texting, she used to open her phone in front of you to check and answer, but now her phone is set to vibrate mode. When her phone lights up, she will find various excuses to hold it and leave. When you come back, if you don't ask her, you won't take the initiative to say it. If you ask her, you can also find various high-sounding excuses to bluff you. Not only does she hide to listen to the phone, but even her phone needs to be hidden. The wallpaper has been changed, the password lock has been changed, and the phone will no longer be placed within your reach... It seems that many things have been hidden by her, and yes, this includes her heart, which is hidden by someone else.
The attitude became cold.
Previously, she served your daily life like a nanny, but you will find that recently, she has become complaining and lazy. It is not because her menopause has advanced, but because she has given her patience to another man. "There is less nagging about you in life, and she will no longer be as enthusiastic as before to please and satisfy you, even if you are kind to her, and she doesn't appreciate it. In short, her attitude towards you has been a lot colder, even though she didn't realize she was snubbing you, she inadvertently revealed signs of her cheating.".
Less free time.
After marriage, life is sweet and loving, like glue. She even gave up her job for the sake of her family, leading a daily life at home and in the mall. She either buys daily necessities or does housework at home, but now it's different! She began to make a lot of friends, and when you ask her, she will tell you that they are all female friends. Suddenly, her activities have become more frequent, and sometimes she sleeps out because she wants to accompany her friends to do something. "You're glad she finally understands how to enjoy life, but you don't know that she may be lying in the same bed with another man on her back.".
The reality is so cruel that it's okay if you're not perfect enough, but if you're not good enough for her, there will be other men who will love her for you. All her actions indicate that she has had an affair, but if you persist in believing that you are suspicious and ignore it, it must be you who will regret it in the end.