1. During female pregnancy
A woman's pregnancy is a long process, during which a man will try to satisfy his wife materially with the joy of becoming a father.
This process is also the most flirtatious for women, and can even lead to inexplicable restlessness, leading to tantrums. In addition, men's physiological instincts make it easy to take care of their pregnant wife while engaging in guerrilla activities outside of marriage.
2. In a state of separation
Marriage in two separate places is the most difficult. Every lonely night is spent in longing and hunger, facing the burden of life and making helpless choices.
For many men, the most practical way to vent their libido is through ML, but there are temptations and temptations everywhere in life. Once self-control is not at the highest warning level, infidelity will naturally occur.
3. Career turbulence period
Men are the backbone of the family. If a man's career is unsuccessful, it will bring financial turmoil to the entire family. During this process, men will sigh and even have a strong sense of inferiority. If their career is not successful for a long time, there will be autism.
This stage is the most vulnerable period for men's psychological defense, where women often only sneer and do not give encouragement, leading to men's coldness and seeking pleasure outside of marriage.
4. When the conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law intensifies
Discord between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law often affects marriage. This is a quite tricky topic for the husband. When he is unable to handle it, he will abandon himself and flee alone.
When do women want a divorce?
1. When neglected by her husband
With the favor of men, women are like living in heaven, extremely happy; When left out by men, women are like living in an ice cellar, feeling extremely lost. All cells, nerves, and blood rush towards divorce, as if only divorce can save them from fire and water.
2. Being unfairly treated by mother-in-law
Many women are the treasure in their parents' hands before marriage, but when they arrive at their mother-in-law's house, they are bullied by their own mother-in-law. Especially when the husband lets go of the mother-in-law daughter-in-law relationship, women will be very eager to divorce.
3. Husband and wife argue endlessly
Husband and wife have a small and joyful quarrel, a big and sad one, and often argue.
4. Material requirements cannot be met
The so-called 'marrying a man to marry a man' involves dressing and eating. Although women nowadays can be independent and earn money to support themselves, the traditional meaning of marriage is still deeply ingrained in women's minds. When a woman's material needs cannot be met, the idea of divorce arises spontaneously.
5. Men cheat
Women have a deep desire for a loyal marriage, and once they discover the fact that their men are cheating, they are likely to think of divorce to end their unloved marriage. Of course, they may not necessarily do it this way, but the idea of divorce must have occurred before.
A good marriage is not always beautiful, wonderful.
Marriage is like a sine wave, with both highs and lows. When marriage is at a low point, please hold onto ourselves and give it more persistence and tolerance.
Every time you persevere and tolerate, you contribute to the journey towards a beautiful marriage.