Post Date December, 02 2023
Some wives are confused about the ups and downs of their husbands' sexual functions, so why?
Domestic and foreign sexologists believe that this is closely related to whether the sexual life between couples is harmonious, and is also the crux of the problem.
According to research, among married people, only 1.2% of the couples (especially the women) who have had sex twice on average have had sexual satisfaction once; On average, only 20.6% of those who have had one sexual satisfaction out of three sexual experiences claim to have had one satisfactory sexual experience, which is considered very good.
The pursuit of sexual harmony between couples is beyond reproach, but the characteristics and differences of both parties objectively exist. If the husband's sexual excitement comes and goes quickly, it usually takes about 2 to 6 minutes to reach orgasm and ejaculate, followed by rapid regression; The wife is less excited, usually about 10 to 30 minutes. However, the duration is longer and the regression is slow. The sexual desire of a husband is mainly concentrated on the sexual organs, while the sexual desire of a wife is not only manifested in the sexual organs, but can also be satisfied through language, touch, hugging, kissing, and other aspects.
In order to achieve a harmonious sexual life between couples, it is necessary to have sex before entering sexual intercourse, which is called sexual induction in medicine. It is mainly aimed at improving sexual excitement between both parties. It takes about one-third to one-second of the entire process to shorten the difference between the two. Husbands should give more touch or use language as sexual stimulation, and wives should also take an active and positive attitude, then use each other's favorite lights and colors to create a unique atmosphere. This is more poetic and picturesque than turning off the lights to make it dark, and has a hazy and mysterious sense, especially for husbands in law, which has a more visual stimulation and sexual stimulation ability.
When having sex, consider the other person more, especially the husband. If the sexual impulse is too strong, use deep breathing and other methods to appropriately suppress it; Wives should fully understand their impulses and actively cooperate. After sexual intercourse, if the wife has not yet reached orgasm, the husband can make up for it by touching and other means in order to satisfy the wife. Discordance in sexual life should be regarded as normal, encouraged, comforted, and confident. Do not suspect, complain, or blame the other person to prevent hurting feelings and affecting the quality of sexual life.
