Post Date December, 03 2023
When is a man prone to impotence in his life. Impotence is one of the common male diseases. In a man's life, he may encounter impotence at any time. Some are due to psychological reasons, and some are due to physical organic diseases. According to the causes of impotence, experts have summarized the three stages in which men are most vulnerable to impotence in their lives. Let's take a look at it.
Stage 1: one year before marriage and two years after marriage
Before and after marriage, both men and women are in a stage of great emotional fluctuation. Nowadays, most young couples are only children, who grew up under the dotion of their parents. The personality is more self-centered, and most of them don't think about each other. They often quarrel over trivial matters. There is a young man and woman who have been in love for several years and are preparing to get married. At this time, they are in a period of great success in their career. They are faced with great pressure at work. The frequent friction between the two sides causes great psychological pressure on the man. Over time, it will affect the physical health of the man, and they can not erect. The woman could not understand and scolded the man for fooling around outside. The two divorced two years after their marriage. The reason is that neither side knows how to accommodate. Two people are completely independent individuals, and friction is inevitable. As a man, he should be generous and dare to say "I'm sorry" first in case of contradiction to avoid the intensification of contradiction, which has a positive effect on his own health and the feelings of both parties. The woman should also understand the pressure on the other side and be gentle and considerate.
The second stage: marriage for more than ten years
"Sleeping in a bed for 20 years will inevitably lead to some 'aesthetic fatigue'." This is a classic sentence in the film "Mobile Phone", which has aroused the resonance of many people. There is a couple who have been married for 12 years and their children are in the third grade of primary school. In the first two years of marriage, the husband's most expected thing every day is to go home early to accompany his wife. Later, he opened his own company and began to work early and return late. However, the woman's body is out of shape because she doesn't pay attention to maintenance after giving birth to a child, and she doesn't pay attention to facial skin care, which makes her look old and lifeless. In the face of his wife who is no longer fashionable, he feels that life is boring and he can't mention "sex". Having sex more than twice a week has become less than once in half a month. If the couple's life is out of harmony in their sexual life, and their skin contact is becoming less and less, they should create an atmosphere of love and communicate their feelings of love in time. Couples who work in the same unit are particularly prone to aesthetic fatigue because of the fact that both the unit and the family are relative day and night. In order to overcome the boredom between husband and wife, innovative adjustment methods must be used to enrich the sexual life of husband and wife and regain the feeling of love. Even though the work is tiring, men should try to help with housework, buy vegetables, go shopping, go outing, play ball games, watch movies, and relive the feeling of dating. Women should also keep their image fresh. Frequent changes in clothing styles and attempts to use the husband's favorite perfume will bring new feelings to each other.
Phase III: menopause
Can the elderly also have sex? The answer is yes. However, after men enter menopause, their temper will become irritable and anxious, and they will always hide at home. Some men will have decreased libido during menopause, and some will have decreased erectile ability, which means they have no sexual ability. After more than 30 years of ups and downs, a couple had been feeling very well. I don't know when they started. Their sexual life was out of harmony. The wife found that the husband was only perfunctory every time, so she suspected that the man had an improper relationship outside. She often checked the man's underwear, eavesdropped on the phone... In order to recover the relationship between the couple that was on the verge of breaking, they decided to go to the hospital for examination together. During the examination, both men and women were found to have menopausal syndrome. After treatment and strengthened communication with each other, the relationship was as good as before. Both sides should learn to understand each other, respect each other and learn more about the characteristics of each other's natural physiological changes. Respect for the lover's interests and hobbies is the glue to enhance the relationship between husband and wife. In the process of respecting each other and adapting to each other's interests, we get the increase of common language and the deepening of husband and wife's feelings. If there is a problem, you should go to the hospital to see if it is organic. If it is a psychological problem, the couple can try to create a sense of freshness and relive the romantic warmth of the past as mentioned above.
(Intern editor: Xie Yunsheng)
