There are too many temptations in a colorful world. As a woman, I don't ask my husband/boyfriend to make a fortune, but I ask him to love me and only myself. Nowadays, men's affairs are becoming more and more common. If women want to gain a foothold, they need to take precautions. Before their husband/boyfriend has an affair, they need to understand his movements. In the early stages of infidelity, they should grasp his handle and put themselves in a more advantageous position. How to judge whether a man has an affair?
1. The cost suddenly increased.
Everyone understands that men need to spend money to pick up girls. If your husband/boyfriend spends more in the short term, he needs to date and eat with another woman. If necessary, he also needs to buy gifts, clothes, and cosmetics for her. How can the cost be small? When you ask why this is the case, he begins to use reasons such as eating with clients, singing, giving gifts to superiors, and recently increasing the cost of smoking to prevaricate with you. Even if he does not really have an affair, you should also strengthen your vigilance from now on, at least this is a signal of a man's affair, which should not be underestimated.
2. Start paying attention to your own image.
As the saying goes, "Women who are happy with their own appearance" also applies to men. Perhaps he used to dislike cleanliness very much, but now he suddenly dressed up and had to look in the mirror and comb his hair before going out. This indicates that he has a problem and wants to attract attention and affection from others. If it weren't for a new lover, why should he pay so much attention to his image? It's been so casual for so long, why would he suddenly become clean this time? The answer goes without saying.
3. Be cautious and keep your phone close to you.
Mobile phones are communication devices, but if a man suddenly acts cautiously and always carries his mobile phone close to his body, and he suddenly has a lot of information and phone calls, and is unwilling to let you see his mobile phone, this is mostly a problem. Moreover, if you ask him, he will definitely be hesitant and hesitant to speak up, using some old classmates and new colleagues as an excuse to prevaricate, if he always wants to go out when answering the phone, If information and other things are cleared regularly, it is more dangerous. Moreover, if his mobile phone used to be read and turned around by you, but now he is particularly cautious and cautious. His mobile phone is basically cleared, it can be said that he has an affair.
4. It's hot and cold to you.
When a man has a new love, he naturally loses interest and sexual interest in his old love. Therefore, not only does he become less concerned about himself in daily life than before, but also he will casually handle matters in his sexual life, and the number of times will definitely decrease compared to before. As long as you think carefully, you will understand that he has indeed become quite indifferent to himself. However, men often like to pretend to be smart. They like to do things that can be covered up in order to make their girlfriend/wife think they haven't had an affair, including guilt for their girlfriend/wife. Therefore, they may be diligent without any reason, making up for you and covering up the fact of their affair by taking you shopping, telling you sweet words, preparing surprises, and so on. So, when a man suddenly treats you hot and cold, you should be careful, he may have an affair.