Most men are ashamed to ask for marriage, but they do not really reject marriage. After the relationship between two people matures, marriage is a problem that almost everyone will consider. Men who have not proposed marriage for a long time are often worried, for example, they do not have a house, their income is not rich enough to give women happiness, and they are afraid of the pain of living apart from each other in another country
These concerns will be further strengthened with the deepening of feelings towards the woman. But please believe that if he loves you, he will not want to marry less than you. A person is waiting, a person is worried, deadlocked. Why can't you break the window paper at this time? If your man is in the following state, dare to propose!
When men are just too responsible
This is an era in which the economy and pressure are advancing by leaps and bounds. It's just that the economic development can't keep up with women's desire, and the wage development can't keep up with the soaring house price. Sometimes a man delays in getting married, just worried that he can't give his girlfriend the life she wants, and worried that he will be rejected.
In this case, women can propose boldly. He doesn't propose, just because he cares too much about you and is too afraid of losing you. If you propose to him, you are undoubtedly releasing the shackles of his body and giving him affirmation and encouragement. He will not only agree with you gladly, but also feel that you are a good girl with understanding. Not only are you a natural beauty, but also you are a confidant. You may be moved to tears.
When we are in love
Many people say that there is an optimal time limit for dating, and the time is too short to be hot. At this time, a woman's proposal will appear hasty and frivolous; If it takes too long, it will be tedious and have no advantages at all. At this time, the chances of winning a marriage proposal are even less pitiful, because you have lost your sense of superiority and mystery in front of a man, and may just give him a good chance to break up with you.
Therefore, the best chance of winning a marriage proposal is in love - usually about a year and a half. You still have a big halo on your head. Like an angel, you look so cute. Even if he doesn't want to marry, he will agree because he is afraid of losing you. After all, he can't live without you at this time, and can't bear to see you sad!
When far away from home
Why do so many people get married in Las Vegas on impulse? Because there is far away from the truth of the world, everyone is like taking drugs, and everyone will do crazy things. Therefore, it is a good idea to propose in a different place, which will obviously improve your chances of success.
Go to travel with your boyfriend "deliberately", whether it is sacred Tibet or romantic Maldives, to keep him away from the noise of the city, the worries of work and the pressure of life. At such a beautiful time of relaxation, the lazy dress you prepared for travel will be rewarded, and the beauty of exotic tunes will be rewarded. At that time, he will feel that everything is not important, and being with you is the most important.
When his parents love you very much
Don't underestimate the power of your parents. If you have a good relationship with your future parents-in-law, your marriage will have great prospects. Men who fear marriage again can hardly resist the pressure from their parents. If you are a daughter-in-law who dislikes dogs and doesn't want to see you, if a man proposes when he is not ready, he won't worry too much about the consequences if he refuses you. They will think that my parents don't agree with this relationship anyway, so it's better to end it completely.
But if you are very pleasing to his parents, even if he hesitates and is a little embarrassed when you propose, he will also think of how to explain to his parents one day if you are rejected by him even if you propose? At this time, you are not alone in proposing to him, but two large families are marrying him. It is difficult for him not to agree!
(Intern editor: Cai Junyi)