Post Date April, 15 2023
When do people want to cheat
1. During pregnancy
A woman's pregnancy is a long process, in which a man tries to satisfy his wife materially with the joy of becoming a father. This process is also the most flirtatious process for women, and can even lead to unexplained restlessness, leading to tantrums. In addition to the physiological and instinctive needs of men, it is easy to take care of the pregnant wife while engaging in guerrilla warfare outside of marriage.
2. In a state of separation
Marriage in two separate places is the hardest. Every long lonely night is spent in lovesickness and hunger. Facing the burden of life, it is also a helpless choice. For many men, the most practical way to vent their libido is ML, but there are temptations and temptations everywhere in life. Once self-control is not at the highest warning level, cheating naturally occurs.
3. Career turbulence period
Men are the backbone of the family. If a man's career fails, it will bring financial turmoil to the entire family. During this process, men will sigh and even have a strong sense of inferiority complex. If their career fails for a long time, there will be autism. This stage is the most vulnerable period for men's psychological defense, and often women only sneer and do not give encouragement, leading to men's chills and seeking pleasure outside marriage.
4. When the conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law intensifies
Discord between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law often affects marriage. This is a tricky topic for husbands. When he cannot handle it, he will abandon himself and flee alone.
Why do men think of cheating? Why do women think of divorce
1. Men are cowardly creatures who do not want to be alone. When marriage encounters setbacks, their first thought is of cheating rather than divorce
First of all, men are a lonely and cowardly animal. They don't want to be alone. "Because they have been unaccustomed to housework since childhood, divorce means being alone and life can be extremely inconvenient. For this reason, they refuse to divorce.".
Secondly, because men have a strong sexual desire when they are young, losing a woman who maintains a stable relationship can be a deadly blow to them. Therefore, even if there is no relationship with current women, as long as they do not find their next lover, they will not make up their minds to divorce.
This is a unique behavior pattern for men. Even if love is no longer there or has long been indifferent, they often casually woo each other. Even if they really have the idea of a divorce, they won't initiate a divorce until they find a next replacement. Thirdly, men are accustomed to using escape methods to face pressure, cheating, and quickly escaping to the arms of another woman is a way for them to relieve their own pressure. This is one reason why we see far more men cheating than women.
2. Women often prefer to be broken rather than broken. When marriage encounters setbacks, the first thing that comes to mind is divorce
Many wives would rather leave that house than have a dull day. When a woman marries a man, her greater hope is to lead a happy and stable life. If a man cannot give her, a woman naturally has a strong desire to leave. Therefore, relying on divorce to solve problems has become the first choice for female friends. In addition, women cannot tolerate bad emotions, and the way to end bad emotions is to end marriage.
When do women want a divorce
1. When left out by her husband
With the love of men, women are like living in heaven, extremely happy; When a woman is left out by a man, she feels like she is living in an ice cellar. When she is completely lost, all her cells, nerves, and blood rush towards divorce, as if only divorce can save her from fire and water.
2. Being unfairly treated by parents-in-law
Many women are the treasure of their parents' hands before marriage, but when they arrive at their mother-in-law's house, they are bullied by their own mother-in-law. Especially when the husband lets go of the mother-in-law daughter-in-law relationship, women will be eager to divorce.
3. Husband and wife argue endlessly
A small quarrel between husband and wife is joyful, a big one is sad, and they often quarrel.
4. Material requirements cannot be met
The so-called "marrying a Han and marrying a Han" refers to dressing and eating. Although women today can be independent and earn money to support themselves, the traditional meaning of marriage is still deeply ingrained in women's minds. When a woman's material needs cannot be met, the idea of divorce arises spontaneously.
5. Men cheat
Women are deeply longing for a loyal marriage. Once they discover the fact that their men are cheating, they are likely to think of divorce to end their unloved marriage. Of course, they may not necessarily do this, but the idea of divorce must have arisen.
A good marriage is not always beautiful and wonderful. Marriage is like a sine wave, with highs and lows. When marriage is at a low ebb, please hold onto ourselves and give marriage more persistence and tolerance. Every time you persevere and tolerate, you do your part towards a beautiful marriage.
