Post Date December, 02 2023
The current situation is that women are becoming stronger and more proactive, less concerned about setbacks and failures, and their hearts are becoming rougher and rougher. Those cute bad girls always sing 'When I see a good boy, I will go after him', constantly invading the man. They may not know that they are destroying those beautiful traditions, making the world more and more resentful.
Nowadays, it is a rare virtue for men to cherish their fragrance and jade, and it is difficult to say that they have nothing to do with those proactive women.
Men have inherent flaws in their nature, and the more difficult they are to chew, the more interested they become. The best and most effective way to trap them is to remain aloof and let them constantly be unpredictable about you. So it seems like I have a suspicion of instigation, as if I were some old hand. In fact, now this has almost become axiom, and every woman understands it. It's just a question of whether she can do it in the first place.
Women are all love animals, and dreaming for love is all about whether they are good at management or not. The song "So You Don't Want Anything" by Zhang Huimei makes both men and women feel like they want it. The most classic one is the line "I have to keep asking until you want to escape". This lyric is the result of women taking the initiative. And the man who takes the initiative, as long as he is not too annoying, is the one who moves women until they are ultimately caught. There seems to be another saying, which is that men cannot be spoiled, while women are born to be spoiled.
Love is like this, it doesn't matter if you're passionate, it's actually quite beautiful. The key is not to start first, whoever starts first will lose the game.
Men really cannot be spoiled, as spoiling them is worse than spoiling women. Women are spoiled at most by being a bit headstrong, while men are spoiled by being prone to losing their sense of responsibility, losing patience and courage towards proactive emotions and bodies, and increasingly adopting a utilitarian and practical attitude towards love. They feel that women are like computers, and with one, it is best to upgrade if they have a better future.
It seems like it's time for women to learn to be ruthless now, and many things have proven that if a woman is a bit ruthless, men will actually become gentle.
