Post Date December, 03 2023
I often hear lines like 'I don't blame him for breaking up, what I hate is that he doesn't say it clearly!' Those who say this are often angry women who have just experienced inexplicable and silent breakups. They are unwilling to acknowledge the impact and trauma of the breakup itself, but instead secretly complain about the other party's approach to the breakup. This seems to be saying: I don't care about this person, let's split it up; But he can't take me so seriously and just slip away without speaking openly. This is disrespectful to me, girl!
When Kai's previous relationship came to an end, he adopted this evasive and timid attitude. The daily phone call gradually became once every three days, and then once a week, with hasty language. Appointments are even rarer, and the originally scheduled trip has also been cancelled on the pretext. The transition from lovers to passersby only took two-thirds of the seasons. However, after that, his old girlfriend criticized his softness and cowardice in their shared circle of friends, and these twists and turns in Kay's ears made him reflect on himself. Indeed, there was a selfish desire to avoid face-to-face conflicts, but the greater consideration at the time was that such a calm and natural recovery would be most conducive to the dignity of children and world peace. Unexpectedly, she hurt the girl. It turns out that women are such creatures who pursue a sense of ceremony. Not only Valentine's Day, Christmas, and various anniversaries, but also breakups should be grand and resounding. What is a silent breakup? It's a trample on the girl's heart! It is an irresponsible annotation for a truly committed relationship! Is there anything more heinous than this?!
Autumn has passed and spring has arrived. Kai has started to fall in love again and is facing a breakup. This time, even if it's heartbreaking, Kay wants to be a gentleman. So he made an appointment for a good restaurant, a good location, ordered top-notch red wine, looked into his girlfriend's eyes, and said sincerely and emotionally, "You're a good girl. I was very happy when we were together, but we're not suitable..." The following 800 words were omitted. Anyway, the gentleman's lines that Kay had rehearsed multiple times in advance, which made him feel a bit smug, were not even heard by the girl's ears. He was really struck by lightning. When the red wine was just poured, the girl was still wondering if she was going to propose. Unexpectedly, what I'm saying is this kind of chest feeling... Kai's lines have not been finished yet, and a glass of water has already been poured on his face - fortunately, it wasn't red wine spilled over - but the ice cubes have also been thrown onto his forehead, causing some pain. The girl roared angrily, "hypocrite, what do you think of me? If you want to break up, just split it up and do this!" Then she quickly left the restaurant and chuckled bitterly, leaving Kai in a room full of whispers.
This is not, that is not - Kay is really confused: how can we achieve a calm and peaceful breakup? Let the emotions gradually fade and fade away, they complain that you are not fair enough; Making a grand farewell, their emotions turned into a different kind: they felt teased and insulted, while the man sitting opposite attempted to remain well dressed, which was like committing a crime.
Breaking up and peace are inherently difficult to reconcile. Kai's efforts have taken a detour. Goodbye is also an unattainable opportunity for friends, not a goal that can be achieved through hard work. The person mentioned is not right on both sides, and the person informed always gets angry inside and outside. But if you insist, it's over.
