Post Date December, 03 2023
If a person has you in their heart, thunder will not move, and the wind will not disperse. If a person doesn't have you in their heart, cherishing is futile, and taking care is useless. Between people, it is often because innocence steals the heart, indifference freezes the lungs, and lies intoxicate the mind. What if my husband's business goes bankrupt and my wife wants a divorce?
Firstly, you need to understand that your wife's divorce may not only be due to your bankruptcy
The reason why my wife wants to divorce you may not be because you are bankrupt and have you fulfilled your promise to her. Or are you not as powerful as you imagine. Sometimes it's possible to go bankrupt in business. The question is whether you respect her enough. If she's not the kind of person who values wealth, you need to reflect on whether you always make false promises to her and disappoint her. If she is not the kind of person who despises poverty and loves wealth, you need to understand where the problem lies between you. Then make adjustments to let the other party know that you have learned from your failures and are willing to work hard to change for them from now on. You should know that a little affirmation from both spouses in times of adversity is a great comfort to each other. You can also honestly tell your wife that you need her spiritual support and encouragement at this time.
Secondly, it is important to know that when people are fragile, they become sensitive and suspicious
My wife wants to divorce you, and your business is going bankrupt again. If you don't have a strong heart at this time, it's difficult to survive this disaster. The emotions in life are the strangest. When there is no conflict between the husband and wife, the husband and wife are the closest people. When there is a conflict between the husband and wife, the husband and wife method suddenly becomes the enemy. And my blood relationship seems to be very heavy all of a sudden. So at this time, it is important to understand to think in a broad way. As long as a person lives, there is a chance to flip the card. Don't complain that your wife doesn't understand you, you should know how to empathize and how you would feel if you were the other party. Everyone should compare their hearts to their own. Money will still be earned, but if my wife loses it, she may never have a chance to get back together again in this lifetime. So, one must understand that one must have magnanimity in order to overcome this difficulty.
Once again, find a way to adjust your mindset and talk to your wife
If you don't encounter some things in your life, you don't know if your mentality is really good. When encountering something, you will understand that a bad mentality is the ultimate loser. Always have a positive perspective, work hard, and be open-minded. This is more important than anything else. It's better to gain momentum than to get angry. Failed, this matter has already passed. No matter how difficult it is, it will pass easily. Take a fall and gain wisdom. This life is all about experiencing problems and solving them. When you are unable to influence others in this lifetime, you should understand how to influence your own thinking. Don't complain about life, it always gets more troublesome the more you complain. Find ways to regulate your mood. When your mood is good, go talk to your wife about your thoughts and hope they give you another chance.
There is no smooth sailing in a person's life. Only by distinguishing the pros and cons can you communicate well with them. When it is possible to save a marriage, do not hesitate. Because you have to believe that failure is the best process of self reflection.
