Post Date December, 03 2023
Marriage and family should be a happy thing for men and women in relationships, after all, love has gone through a long race of time and finally has a common destination for each other. However, many people will find that various family conflicts begin to arise after marriage. What are the problems with this? Below, the editor will take you to reveal the types of women men like from the perspective of men's psychology. Let's take a look at how couples communicate together!
Men's psychology
When young men and girls fall in love and get married together, as long as the girl can demonstrate a kind nature, as long as there are no excessive demands or things beyond the bottom line of principles, the boy will usually be more tolerant and accommodating to the woman. However, the vast majority of boys are particularly disgusted with unreasonable women, especially in non principled issues. Men usually care about their wife's performance in three aspects.
1、 Indifferent to the male parent
After marriage, many women do not like to live with their parents in law. It is best to have their own world of two. As long as economic conditions permit, the vast majority of parents in law will meet the requirements of their children.
Smart daughter-in-law should often go to their grandparents' house to seek warmth and comfort, or have their children accompany them. It is important to avoid overtly showing that they are closer to their parents than their parents. Although this is understandable, it can make them feel very uncomfortable in their hearts. In addition, if an unreasonable daughter-in-law frequently criticizes their parents, Or showing indifference to one's mother-in-law can definitely make him very angry, and sometimes the consequences can be serious.
In fact, after marriage, men would prefer women to treat their parents as well as their biological parents. A man does not ask a woman to treat his parents well, but the most basic respect and filial piety he would like to see, because this is also a standard to reflect whether a woman is kind.
2、 Habitual frontal confrontation with mother-in-law
Some daughters-in-law habitually argue with their mother or argue with their mother at home. However, after getting married and having their own small family, this habit that has been developed for many years has also been brought to their mother-in-law's house.
Although you regard your mother-in-law as your own mother from the depths of your heart, and are accustomed to arguing with her like your mother in everything, her thoughts will never be as magnanimous as your mother's.
My mother-in-law is my mother-in-law. She will see your direct confrontation as disrespect towards the elderly and a sign of impolite upbringing. If she complains in front of her son or husband again, it will definitely trigger strong dissatisfaction from him.
All men have a strong desire to be filial sons after marriage. While they are busy with their own careers and have no time to take care of their parents, of course, they hope that their daughter-in-law can help them fulfill their filial piety on their behalf and achieve filial piety towards their parents.
Moreover, men like to see harmonious coexistence among family members. Although they do not expect their daughter-in-law to be obedient to their mother-in-law, at least they should not always argue with them over trivial matters and make trouble.
3、 Let my husband compare who he really loves
Men are most annoyed by women using foolish questions to test who they really love more. Therefore, men are very disgusted with women's foolish questions of "who will you save first when your mother and I fall into the river at the same time". If you consider that you only have one mother and save your mother first, what would you think?
To be honest, if you and your child fall into the river at the same time, who do you want your husband to rescue first? Should we save the wife or the child first? Although maternal love can be great enough to sacrifice oneself for others, if a daughter-in-law uses this question to ask whether her husband is loyal and praises you as the only one, then you often don't get the answer you want.
In a man's heart, no matter how deeply he loves himself and his wife, that love can never surpass the love for his mother. Although the two types of love are different, in a man's heart, there is a clear distinction between the light and the heavy. Therefore, men do not like women asking themselves to do such painful multiple-choice questions.
Wife and mother, these two women are the people that men most want to protect in their lives. Therefore, although women can be pampered through coquettishness, they must be gentle and not hurt each other's feelings because of these boring questions.
(Intern Editor: Chen Hao)
