Post Date December, 03 2023
For men, it is really a skill to coax their daughter-in-law well. In fact, women are more sentimental at many times. They all like men to spoil her and coax her. If they are not happy, they should be coaxed by men. However, not all men are so good at coaxing their daughter-in-law. So what should they do with their husbands who can't coax others? Don't worry. Let's learn about it with the small editor!!
Some male friends feel that women are difficult to deal with nowadays, so they are always petulant and complain that marriage is very torturous. But then again, when a man marries his wife, he must give others happiness. If he can't give happiness, he can't tie a woman's heart. His wife will become someone else's person sooner or later. Fortunately, women like to be coaxed most. As long as men coax them well, they can make their wives die and make their families harmonious and happy.
1、 Induce the wife to relax with praise
Women not only like sweet words, but also like praise. Even if she knows that her husband's praise is not practical, she will also enjoy it. The more praise a woman gets on something, the more willing she is to do it well. Men should make full use of this feature to coax their wives, comfort women's hearts through praise rather than criticism, and mobilize women's enthusiasm to support their husband's career. For example, when a man has no time to take care of his family to attract complaints, it is easy to cause a quarrel between husband and wife if he can't handle it properly. A man only needs to say to his wife, "I am busy working all day and not at home. My family is thanks to you, thank you for your understanding and support!" After the wife gets the praise from her husband, even if she has resentment in her heart, she can't say it.
This kind of guidance for a long time is to give women a hint to themselves: rather than complaining about making her husband unhappy, it is more affordable to earn a few compliments with ease. A man can also get twice the result with half the effort by praising her little progress by correcting his wife's slovenness or poor housekeeping.
2、 Tell your wife to be at ease with love
Women are more vulnerable than men, and need to have enough sense of marital security. Women without a sense of security are not confident and happy. With the development of society and the constant updating of the concept of marriage and love, more and more men are cheating on each other. Women need to spend a lot of time to prevent men from engaging in sexual affairs. Naturally, they will feel tired both physically and mentally, resulting in poor face color, bad mood, and violent temper... Practice has proved that women who are confident in marriage will do their best to support men's career. If men want women to help themselves wholeheartedly, they must exchange care for peace of mind.
There are many ways for men to care about their wives. Small favors and important day expressions are the transmission of love. This kind of care will make women feel that their husbands always put themselves in their hearts. For example, when the wife is sick, she will accompany her in front of the bed to ask for warmth, give her a hug when she is happy or unhappy, give her a cup of water or fight when she is cooking, buy her a small gift she likes when she is on business, send her a bouquet of flowers on Valentine's Day, and invite friends to celebrate her birthday, all of which will make women feel extremely happy.
3、 Use praise to inspire filial piety
Nowadays, most couples are only children and need to take care of many elderly people. Women marry men in fact. Because of the deep-rooted traditional concept, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has become the most difficult family relationship to deal with. Although marital happiness depends on the emotional basis of husband and wife, the disharmony between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has a great impact on marriage. It is particularly important for men to coordinate the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law after marriage. Although there are many ways to harmonize the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, because most mother-in-law only want a share of respect and filial piety from their daughter-in-law, men should not be passive in coordination after the conflict between their mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. It is better to prevent it from happening. From the day of marriage, stimulate the wife's filial piety, mobilize the wife's enthusiasm to respect her mother-in-law, and guide the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law to do a good job in the relationship through heart-to-heart exchange.
Therefore, a man should be good at discovering his wife's little dutiful actions, keep up with praise in time, and his wife will do better if encouraged. As a son, we should also observe the mother's reflection. When the wife's filial piety is responded by the mother's kindness, we should give the mother a thumbs up, otherwise we need to remind the mother to treat her daughter-in-law well.
