What should I do if I accidentally find my model husband cheating and have difficulty getting pregnant

We have been married for five years, and our relationship has been very good. This year, in my early thirties, I have been delayed in having a child. The reason lies in me. The doctor said that my body is special and it is difficult to conceive a child. In recent years, my husband has taken me everywhere to see a doctor for the sake of my child, without complaint or regret. Five years have passed in a flash, and I can still conceive. Last year, my husband and I discussed and decided to make a test tube baby. A classmate of mine is in the same situation as me. She is now successfully pregnant, but the process is extremely painful. In this regard, I also reported a great deal of hope and courage to decide.

I once saw my husband and other people's children playing hot, and the envious look made me feel distressed. From that moment on, I decided to be a test tube baby, and even if I suffered a lot, I would persist. "I tried to overcome my psychological burden, but when we were preparing to have a child, I found out that he was cheating.". When I found out, they were already three months old, and the third person turned out to be the singer in the bar. I simply cannot accept the fact that in my mind, he has always been the image of a good man and a model husband and pacesetter.

I discovered that he was cheating in February this year when I saw him buying things for women on my computer's Taobao account. At that time, I thought he had bought them for me, and I secretly enjoyed them for a while. As a result, I waited for many days and didn't see him give it to me. "I told him my doubts, and he panicked and confessed without waiting for me to ask.". I was in a daze for a moment. I thought it was a surprise, but I didn't expect him to scare me. "I haven't had a good meal and sleep for a few days, and he apologized and courted me in various ways. Seeing that he knew his mistake and changed his appearance, my heart softened and I forgave him.".

"We continued to prepare for our plan to have children. Over the past few months, I suffered a lot and still failed.". My friends all advised me not to worry. This is not something that can be successful overnight. Every time I give myself a boost, I think of my husband betraying me, and my heart feels foggy and depressed. In May this year, I found out that he had installed Momo software on his mobile phone behind my back, and there was only one friend inside. He also wrote on his signature: "In my world, there is only you!"! In the computer, he also searches for astrological fates and the like, which he wouldn't have paid attention to before. I think he has made another mistake

Now, his behavior towards me is fairly normal. Every night, we hug each other and fall asleep. We are very close and often say in my ear, 'If it weren't for me, he wouldn't know how to live his life!'! But how does the Momo software on his phone explain it. "He works freely, and I'm really worried that he'll use this time to find that woman.". "His friends are all married and have children, and he has been delayed in becoming a father. I feel I owe him a debt.". The road ahead is very long, and I don't want to live like this. I'm very pessimistic now. In this family, I can't see the future. What should I do?

Reply from the maintenance consultant:

Hello. In life, without the appearance of children, it seems very empty. Getting married and having children is a natural thing. "But you can't satisfy his desire to be a father. If he doesn't say anything, he feels bitter inside.". "He is looking for a woman outside to fill the comfort he needs inside his heart. He cannot complain to you, so you will feel inferior about not having children.". The calmer a person looks on the surface, the weaker he is inside.

Now is not the time to suspect him of cheating. You can observe him and stop suspecting him. First of all, you need to adjust your physical and mental state. In recent years, there have been many cases of infertility, and after treatment, you can still have children. Instead of thinking about how strong the other person is, think about the flaws in your marriage. Your marriage is a bit boring, and families without children have even less laughter and laughter. Secondly, take up more of his time. When he has free time, let him accompany you to travel and arrange more outdoor activities to bring your relationship closer.