Post Date December, 03 2023
Reflect on your marriage
Flies do not bite seamless eggs. When one's own man has an affair, although the direct phenomenon is that one's own man is mixed up with another woman. On the surface, it seems that the two of them are contrary to moral and legal principles. But we should understand that flies do not bite seamless eggs, it is precisely because of the cracks in their marriage with their own men that the third fly bites. So when their man has an affair, women should first reflect on their marriage and see where there are holes.
2. Observe your man's attitude
Men who have affairs can often be divided into two types of infidelity: mental infidelity and physical infidelity. Some men cheat on one of them, while others cheat on both. Many people believe that men are the most intolerant of their women's physical infidelity, while women are the most intolerant of their men's spiritual infidelity. So many women will think that if their husband has an affair, he is just physically unfaithful, mentally unfaithful, and still loves himself and cares about the family. At this time, many women will choose to forgive this man. At that time, once the man had really lost interest in the woman and completely lost his sense of the family, the relationship would finally have to be announced as over. So when your man has an affair, a woman might as well go quietly and check his attitude to see if he has any thoughts of turning around and hoping to be forgiven. If the other party still has concerns about the family, there is still a glimmer of hope for a woman to stay. If the other party has insisted on abandoning themselves, it is useless for them to try to retain and forgive.
Do Your Own Job Well
I remember a joke like this: When a man finds out that his woman doesn't love him, he will find something to do to keep him busy, while a woman finds out that her man doesn't love him anymore, she will treat pestering him as something to do. Many women are shrewd and powerful women at work. They have risen to the sword and fallen into flames in the workplace. "But once you discover that your man has had an affair, the once workaholic energy will be lost in playing junior high school, and you will no longer have the energy to worry about your work or your family life.". The center of my life is all about playing junior. In fact, the more such a woman is, the more distant her man will be from her in the end. Because a truly attractive woman is independent, not only financially, but also mentally. As for a woman who only worries about playing junior three all day long, it can be imagined how much her spirit depends on her other half. When the other half is gone, the whole person is completely collapsed. How to deal with my husband's cheating? A truly attractive and attractive woman should do something to defeat the third child on the premise of doing everything she needs to do well.
Protect your children
After many women discover that their husband has an affair, the first emotion they provoke is anger. If your husband has already started staying up late at night, this anger will vent on your child. Especially when you feel that your child is also bleeding from the blood you deeply hate, that anger will rise even higher. Or some women may feel that they have paid too much for their children, leading to aging and losing their face, making them initially unattractive, and may also have an angry mood towards their children. In fact, children are only children after all, and they have no responsibility for their parents' behavior. Or some women, in order to leave a good reputation in their children's hearts, make their children stand by themselves against their husbands. Although such behavior satisfies the mother's own sense of existence, it will be a kind of trauma for the children. In fact, children will identify with their parents while growing up. If one of them must attack the other, it will make it difficult for children to achieve identity. In particular, some girls, after being nurtured by their mother's belief that no man is good in the world, it is difficult for them to establish a close relationship with another man as adults. As children, they all have the right to live a better life. Therefore, as a mother, she should not impose some of her own pain on her children. Children who grow up in an environment where their parents are not harmonious are prone to psychological problems, so mothers should protect their children better.
Men have affairs, and women have many things to do. If a woman can do the above things well, it will not only benefit herself, but also benefit her children and family.
