Post Date December, 02 2023
Sometimes choosing a man determines what kind of life to choose. There is often no absolute right or wrong in life, sometimes it's just because we're too lazy to use our brains. What happens when a married man looks down on your sisters?
Firstly, why must he look up to it
You should know that whether your man looks down on your sisters or not has little to do with you. Why do you have to make him look up to your sisters? Everyone has a different outlook on life, so don't influence their values with the person you like. Even after marriage, one must understand that you have your world and he has his freedom. You can't argue with him just because he cares about what he doesn't care about, because you are all independent individuals. As long as he cares about you, it's okay. Don't force anything else. I think too much, it's just that I can't get along with myself.
Secondly, think about why your men look down on them
If your man doesn't touch your sisters. Perhaps I don't know them at all. But after being in contact, you look down on them. Have you ever dialectically thought about the reasons behind this. If your man is not someone who dislikes poverty and loves wealth, or if he has people and things he doesn't like, then your sisters have ever belonged to this category. If your sisters are engaged in illegal professions, or if their qualities are not as good, or if their behavior makes people feel hesitant, then you need to understand your man. Because he doesn't have much interaction and affection with them. Why must he look down on them?
Again, it is important to make your sisters pay attention to your image and behavior
My sisters must also have their own unattractive side. If you really want to straighten out this matter, why not put some effort into it from your sisters. You need to communicate and communicate well with your sisters. Don't be the first to say that your husband is not good, saying that he is not good is equivalent to embarrassing yourself. You should know that life is your own. You already have a family, what you need to do is to make everyone feel at ease. It depends on the situation whether it is possible to communicate well until everything is done. Don't force anyone.
Finally, learn not to take this matter to heart
For your husband and sisters, they don't put too much effort into this matter. The reason why you are sensitive is because you take your own sisters too seriously. But on the other hand, I ask you: If your own husband really takes your sisters too seriously, will you feel insecure in your heart? If you can't get along with your own man, you can't get along with yourself. Why should these unhappy things be staged back and forth? And why do you have to make them look up to each other? In fact, things about saving face have always been fought for by oneself. Why do you need the emperor not to be anxious, the eunuch?
Learn to give up on the harmless things in life. Focus on the things in life that enhance your happiness. Only then can you live your own happiness. After marriage, one's own life can be rich, but it is important to know that you and the man are one family. At least one party must be preserved when problems arise. Don't neglect one thing and lose the other, neither side is good. If you can't handle a good relationship, let it go and things will go smoothly.
